
Introduction
It is not easy teaching a man. Every Woman already knows that.
men do not like to change and they do not like to feel at fault
for anything. Instead of thinking they might be the problem they
prefer to change, control, and fix what is around them. they hate
being what they call "nagged". Unless a man is raised
by a single Mother, most often he takes after his father. What
his father teaches and passes down to his son, he had learned
from his own father. The father will even treat Women disrespectfully
right in front of his son and will pat the son on the back when
the son mimicks his father's behaviour. they disregard their Wife's
complaints by saying such responses as "Oh let him be! boys
will be boys!". Many husbands even beat their Wives in front
of their sons, teaching their son to either feel sorry for his
Mother or to grow up to beat his own Wife one day.
Besides teaching Our sons right from birth how to respect Women
more, We also need to re-teach every man We meet what he has not
already learned about Women since his Mother and father had not
done a very good job of teaching it to him. he needs to learn
such things as how to care for a Woman, respect Her, and to not
care about who is wrong or right or who wins the argument when
fighting, but to just care about not hurting the Woman he cares
about. Many men do not even realize that what they are doing is
wrong and even if they do realize it and want to make things better,
they still need to know how to correct it and do it properly.
Communication is the key. I know, You have heard that before.
But You need to know what to teach him and how to
teach it to him so that You can communicate it better. men do
not usually listen to what You say and instead only hear
that You are complaining and that You are not happy. they do
want to "fix" the "problem" but again they
may not want to think that they are the "problem"
or if they do realize that they have no idea how to fix
it.
Why men do not understand or listen to what You are saying:
1. Women use more words than men. After awhile his brain goes
on overload because he could not catch half of what You were saying.
So You need to say it in a way that he understands and more simply
with the use of less words.
2. men cannot hear when they are talking. For this reason, You
cannot interuppt him as much and You both need to take turns talking.
3. men can only hear one thing at a time. Turn off the TV and
the radio and be the only one talking to him.
4. men have tunnel vision so they can only see and focus on one
thing at a time. So if You talk to him while he is watching TV,
fixing the car, or if he is busy looking at an attractive Woman
at the next table over, he will only catch half of what You say.
men also can only understand things they see. If a strange man
gives you a look and You tell Your man about it, his response
to not doing anything about it will most often be: "Oh? I
did not see him do that." It does not necessarily mean he
does not believe You. It is just that men need visuals to understand
things better. (Which is why they like action movies, TV, and
girly magazines so much). So You must show him how to worship
and serve You. men often complain that Women will not watch pornos
with him or other erotic films which he feels will help him to
explore his fantasies. Sadly, very rarely does a man ask what
Your fantasies are and if he can explore them with you. Again,
he has tunnel vision. he is focused only on fulfilling the fantasy
he has always had and he wants Your help in doing that. But that
is not a problem because believe it or not here is where Your
fantasies and wishes come in too.
Buy a FemDom video (or get him to buy it) which shows both what
You know he likes and what You like. See how he reacts to the
parts You enjoy most then inform him that You would be willing
to try that with him.
My videos were made with the Woman in mind. Female Supremacy and
Female Domination is about the Woman being served by a man doing
what SHE wants, not what he wants. After all, that is what
slaves are for. My films show the man what he likes (ie: foot
worship, whipping, spanking, etc. In otherwords, his fetishes)
but at the same time it also teaches him how to consider what
the Woman wants. In the end, both are happy.
The reason why Goddess club has become such a well visited website
and why My videos are so popular among both men and Women is because
I know what FemDoms and male slaves want. I know what their most
common complaint is. I have heard it all before and all too often.
I also know the solution to both their problems. How do I understand
men so much? I understand the male mind more because I have studied
psychology all My life, been Dominant all of My life, have had
submissive boyfriends since I was 7 years old, and have been training
slaves for over 15 years now.
So do not think that My videos are only for men or that they are
just to be used as a learning tool. My videos maybe educational
but they are also very entertaining and fun too. If You want to
know which video might be better for You just email Me and I will
try to help You decide.
I teach Women what I know in person as well through Goddess parties,
dinners, and in person tutoring lessons. So do not hesitate to
email Me and ask about meeting Me. If You are unable to travel
however, I also tutor by email. (My complete article "How
To Teach a man to Worship You" is included in the tutoring.
It is not the one that You are reading now. This is only the introduction.)
My blessings,
Supreme Goddess Lorena of Goddess club and Queen of Femaria
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