
Supreme Goddess Lorena's Advice: "Jealousy is a hard thing to have to deal with but it is also a very natural human emotion that We/we all feel. So knowing that it is inevitable and unpreventable, We/we must instead focus on how We/we should deal with it once We/we begin to feel it.
When you find yourself feeling jealous of your Owner's other
slaves, try thinking about this: If She only kept you, would you
be able to do enough for Her? Have you ever felt that maybe She
asks too much of you? Do you have enough time to cater to Her
every need? Do you ever feel exasperated from 'hopping' for Her
and wish to have some more time to yourself to do your own thing?
When those situations and feelings occur, rather than to let it
lead to an argument, and quite possibly even make you think about
leaving the 'relationship', perhaps you might instead consider
not keeping your Goddess only for yourself. There are actually
many advantages to Her having more than one slave.
Here are just some to name a few:
-Other slaves might be able to serve Her in ways which you cannot. For example, some of My slaves are technically inclined whereas some others are not and I would rather not have the not-so-technically-inclined slaves touch My computer!
-When you need time off or if you wish to work at a fulltime or parttime job, your Owner will make one of Her other slaves hop for Her instead of having to call on you.
-One night your Goddess may feel in the mood to torture one of Her slaves. Are you willing to fulfill all of Her desires or would this be a good time to let one of Her other slaves step in and take your place?
-She will be able to bring other slave's life-long fantasies come true. I Myself have made many slaves feel grateful for allowing them the privilege of being able to serve Me. If I had allowed the jealousies that My other slaves had felt prevent Me from having other new slaves serve Me then these new slaves would still be sitting home alone in front of their computer or sticking their nose in one of their many fetish magazines and they would still be dreaming about what it might be like to serve a Dominant Woman. My older slaves should try to recall what life had been like before they had the honour of meeting Me. Perhaps then they could relate to how these new slaves feel.
These are really only just a few advantages. I am certain you can think of many others if you try hard enough.
Keep in mind that if your Goddess allows you to serve other
Women (you should only be doing that with Her permission and should
also never offer to serve others but instead wait for Her to instruct
you to because She Herself wants you to do it.) then She too might
have to deal with jealous emotions from time to time. It is natural
and is a part of every relationship, not to mention every type
of relationship. The most important thing is learning how to deal
with it so that no one feels too hurt and that no one purposely
uses it in order to hurt anyone."
Videos which will train you how to serve a Woman who owns more
than one slave:
The Life of a slave
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Lorena. All Rights Reserved.
Goddess Diana's Advice: "From necessity, make a virtue."
Goddess Sara's Advice: "What a yummy question that
is. I do have My opinion on this. First off, there should not
be any jealousy. If the slave cannot handle the fact that his
Owner keeps other slaves beside himself then that is his problem.
Yes, I know it may be difficult, but really, is there ever a perfect
slave out there that will serve every whim that We need? The answer
is not just no but hell no! That is why there is a need for more
than just one. I know that there are certain tasks that My slave
could use work in, and he knows it as much as I do because he/it
is made aware. First he/it is given the chance to prove to Me
that he/it has been working on what ever I ask, if he still fails
to impress Me, then its time to start looking for a slave
that can please Me in those ways but still keeping him on as he
does please in ways that I do enjoy. Why not have it all?
What are these men anyway? They are slaves; they are slaves that are there for Our pleasure. Yes, they enjoy the act of serving, being loyal to Us and pleasing Us in several ways. But if they cannot do this to Our satisfaction that is one of the reasons why We have others. (And besides We can!) If they do not like this, then they are not really being honest with Our happiness. And trust Me, every slave wants a happy Goddess yes? I know this due to the fact that when they are being punished for something stupid that they have done or said the pain they are suffering is for a reason, they know this, and punishment is punishment. That is how they learn. (unless they are rock hard stupid) and sometimes unfortunately some are.
The slave may try his best to be the
best slave in the stable, but he/it will have a breaking point,
and once he/it has been pushed over the point where it can not
handle the fact that they are not the only one that is when it
starts to be difficult for them. The slave will start to complain,
rebel and sometimes wander away and must be given a reality check
and the leash must be yanked to remind it/him of his place. Complaints
cause punishment. I guess the bottom line is that the slaves must
understand that if they are chosen to be around Me or receive
attention from Me, that they will just have to face the fact that
I want what I want (and what Sara wants, Sara gets) and they should
not get in the way or someone is going to get stepped on. (and
trust Me, Ill enjoy that one) They all should know that
they could be replaced at the snap of a finger. Besides, who is
it all about anyway
but the Goddess's happiness. Some fail
to remember that and only think with that thing that they call
a penis. That is their mistake. There will always be more slaves
just waiting to serve."
worshipper slave tom s.'s Advice: "we're slaves, we
have no choice but to get over it! Seriously though, because our
Goddess, Goddess Lorena, is so kind and generous, She actually
cares how Her slaves feel (which is something that She doesn't
have to do but is one of the things that make Her so special to
Her devoted slaves).
In my mind this is not a big problem because i know that i am
unworthy of my Goddess. my only saving grace is that She has so
generously taken the time to allow me to Serve Her and thereby
given my life a purpose. She is so wonderful and understanding
that i accept Her wisdom and adopt it as my own. She needs more
slaves to create Femaria and the lifestyle that She so richly
deserves. How could i, in my right mind, expect that She would
be so negligent with the incredible gifts that She has been given
as to give it all up for me? That's preposterous!
Goddess Lorena, the Supreme Goddess, Boss of Goddess Club and
Queen of Femaria, is the rightful owner of as many slaves as She
can convert. Indeed, it is my job, and the job of every other
slave owned by Goddess Lorena, to help Her acquire more slaves.
we mustn't rest while there is still work to be done towards making
Her life better. If any slave of Goddess Lorena does suffer with
feelings of jealousy towards Her other slaves, hopefully they
can be consoled by the fact that the Supreme Goddess loves all
of Her slaves. Better yet, they can use those feelings of jealousy
to drive them even harder towards doing Her bidding. The harder
we all work, the better it is for She who owns us.
Long live the Supreme Goddess, Goddess Lorena, Boss of Goddess
Club and Queen of Femaria!"
worshipper slave bruce's Advice: "A true slave must
understand how lucky he is to have a place in his Mistress's slave
stable. he must understand that as She is far Superior to him,
She is certainly entitled to have many slaves worshipping Her
and catering to Her every need. he must understand this and never
show any jealousy, though at times i know that isn't easy. What
he should try to do is work very hard in serving his Mistress
so that he might become one of Her favorite slaves and thus gain
privileges that Her other slaves might not get. A real slave must
be secure in his own performance to even want his Mistress to
have many slaves and even help Her recruit more. Her comfort is
all he should care about."
worshipper slave james s.'s Advice: "A true slave
exists to serve the One who owns him. he has no needs, feelings
or expectations in regards to his situation. It is simply to serve,
obey and please his Owner. But of course, men do have emotions,
and not being the cleverest of beings, the results of these emotions
sometimes cloud our better judgment. But to be a good slave we
must learn to see these sensations for what they are. Jealousy
and envy are negative feelings which will only lead to negative
thoughts and actions. It is important to keep one's thoughts clear
and positive, concerning ourselves only with the
well being of our Goddess. If She is happy and content with all
She requires, then we are serving Her well. When i hear that another
slave has served Her personally for a weekend, i do not think
ill of him, but rather i try to learn from it, that i may do well
when given my opportunity. Whether it is the action of one slave,
or all of Her slaves, if it brings Her pleasure, then it is good.
And if She is let down by any of us, it is by all of us. Like
an army of ants, working together we can build a mountain
for our Queen. So to be true to Her, and prove ourselves worthy
slaves, She must be our only concern. Emotions must be put aside,
negative thoughts must not be allowed. And if one has truly accepted
the role of slave, then one has already accepted that Goddess
may choose to have as many slaves as She desires. If you do not
understand this, then you have much to learn
about being a slave."
worshipper slave c.'s Advice: "This particular issue
can be relatively easy to address by the slave, keeping in mind
that he is only a slave and one of many slaves in his Owner's
stable of slaves. As a slave, he cannot be self-centered or self-serving,
he has no rights, he must always remember that he is property,
belonging completely to his Owner, for Her to do as She pleases
with him or with any other of Her slaves, whenever She feels like
it.
It is a concept that is probably difficult initially for the slave to come to terms with. However, he has to always keep reminding himself that his Owner comes first in all matters and that he is only one of many slaves that She owns. The slave has to understand that Her position is far superior, complex and all encompassing that he can ever hope to understand; demanding She divide Her attention not only amongst all Her slaves, but all the issues concerning Her dominion.
Instead of whining, complaining and being
a nuisance to Her, the slave should put the interests of his Owner
first, seeing to Her needs and wants; trying to please Her and
make life more pleasant and relaxing for Her. he must always be
grateful and show gratitude for any and all kindnesses She bestows
on him. If She is happy, the slave will be happy too."
worshipper slave x.j.'s Advice: "i believe that jealousy
is a human emotion that can occur in any relationship. Problems
arise not so much from feeling the occasional pang of jealousy,
but from not being able to handle it effectively.
When a slave enters a stable, he may intellectually realize that his Mistress has other slaves, but he may not be able to emotionally deal with that fact. The best way i believe to handle the jealousy is through logic and coming to grips with reality.
Most slaves will fantasize that they are the Mistress's favorite, or that if they were the Mistress's only slave then life would be perfect. Indeed there are Mistress's that have only one slave and seek no other. But, is such a life really as perfect as one imagines?
Being a Mistress's only slave carries a tremendous amount of responsibility. A Mistress has many needs and a slave must be almost superhuman to fulfill them all. In fact, any weaknesses that one has as a slave would be magnified a hundred times. Plus, jealousy can still exist. The slave might constantly worry that his Mistress might find someone better and replace him. Every male that his Mistress encounters could become a potential threat.
But, if a Mistress has more than one slave, the responsibility becomes shared among more people. The slave no longer has to be perfect. Each slave can have his strengths and weaknesses - they will balance each other out. Also, if the Mistress meets another man, then he will simply be added to Her slave stable, and Her old slaves can continue to serve Her. Furthermore, being in a stable can produce some interesting training experiences that would be impossible as a solo slave.
So, when the stable slave feels that
occasional pang of jealousy, he should take note that that is
the voice of the childish ego talking. He should concentrate on
the advantages of being in a stable and realize how fortunate
he is to even have a Mistress to serve."
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