FemDom and male slave advice-13

From the video Egyptian Goddess


"I am in the early stages of a Goddess/slave relationship right now and I could really benefit from Your wisdom so that I go about this the right way. I met My slave through a personal ad 2 months ago and he lives 280 miles away. He's supposed to move to be with Me and the distance is tough cause we only see each other every 2-3 weeks. Should I set a deadline or be stricter? I also need to know what to require of him while we're apart. He does send Me daily e-mails (per My request) but he's not anywhere near as attentive when he's back home compared to when he's here with Me. He needs to find a job here, but I don't know how long that will take. It's very frustrating going by his schedule and not Mine. This is why I am very interested in getting a copy of Your article 'How to Teach a man to Worship You' because sometimes I think he takes Me for granted. Thank You again for Your time Goddess." From: Goddess K.

Supreme Goddess Lorena's Advice: "From what You have said so far, it appears as though he may not feel that there is any great need to re-locate. At least not in the very near future. he apparently gets to hear from You every day and he also gets to visit You every 2 to 3 weeks. You need to give him motivation to move. Yes, set a time limit to when he should re-locate by. Also, withhold on meeting with him again and do not email him so much until he has made his plan to move. Or, at least the next time he comes, have him tattooed or branded with Your name. If he does not want to bear Your mark then it would only be too obvious that he is wasting Your time. Also, seek another slave who is more conveniently located. Let Your long distance slave know that You are seeking another slave who lives closer. This too should give him more motivation. This will let him know that You are by no means desperate for him and that You are more than willing to look elsewhere if he is not serious about making this every 2 to 3 week 'session' into a lifestyle. Now that You know that You want him to re-locate, I would recommend that You do not ask much more of him until he has re-located. This again gives him motivation to move. Otherwise, if he feels that he is serving You enough from where he is then he may not see the need to move closer. If he in fact breaks free of his chain once You follow these new rules/guidelines then it would only prove that he had no intention of going the next step and that he had only wanted his 'sessions'.

This is really not much different than a vanilla realtionship in which the Female wants to man to stop using Her for casual sex and to fully commit to Her instead.

Regrettably, the days of branding slaves and having them dragged home and beaten for running away has been over for several hundreds of years now. slaves now have rights and so tattooing, slave contracts, prenuptials, and marriage contracts are now required in order to keep him under Your wing, in Your home, and/or under Your feet.

If You still have not resolved this within once month's time then do let Me know and I would be more than happy to send You My article 'How to Teach a man to Worship You.' "

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Goddess Diana's Advice: "Hmm. It sounds like the problem is, one or both of you are expecting too much. Proper worship is far too time-consuming for him to have the distraction of a job, men can't usually cope with a routine that includes 8 hours working, 8 hours housekeeping and 8 hours worshipping. Something has to go, because don't forget he'll need a few hours sleep each day too.

Draw up a budget, taking into account the time and financial resources that you have, and work out from that what to do. If it turns out that you have to accept fewer material luxuries in order to afford a slave, then you have a tough choice to make."


worshipper slave tom s.'s Advice: "As a lowly slave who is proud to be owned by the Ultimate Goddess, Goddess Lorena, my best advice is to work with him slowly and allow him time to find a job, move closer, etc. Speaking from experience, his desire to please You will grow stronger as time passes and the relationship deepens if You let him 'fit' this into his life as best he can during this period of time. As he falls deeper and deeper in love with You, and Your control over him grows ever more powerful, You will be able to use him as You like and he will obey You without consideration for himself in the future. The only drawback is that You don't want him to be so dependant on You that he is incapable of being of value to You in the 'outside' world. Give him enough space and time to become Your slave in his own way and in the end he will be competing with all the other men You claim as Your property for the most precious gift of all, Your time and attention.

One other thing that i would add from my own experience in being trained by the most incredible Woman ever born, Goddess Lorena, was that She always gave me enough freedom to make sure that i could maintain my previously created responsibilities while i was being trained by Her. The space She gave me during the training period was rewarded with a well trained, completely devoted slave who is a productive member of society and through his position has been able to do some nice things for Her. my Reward was to be able to worship and adore an undeniably Superior Woman who is unbelievably generous with Her time and attention. As enthralled and excited as i was to meet Her and Please Her when i first came across GoddessClub.com, i can honestly say that my desire to please Her now is even greater because of my Love for Her."


worshipper slave bruce's Advice: "It is not easy to control a slave from a distance. However in order for the relationship to work, i feel the Mistress must set very strict parameters for Her slave to follow. In addition to daily e-mails, the slave should be required to let his Mistress know where he is at all times. he should be required to check in at least 3 times daily, and even ask permission to do anything out of his ordinary routine life. he should also carry a beeper so his Mistress can always reach him on a 24/7 basis. In this particular situation, i would say it doesn't sound like the slave is very serious. In my opinion, the Mistress should set a strict deadline for the slave to relocate, or don't waste Her time anymore. The fact that he isn't as attentive when he is not with Her, leads me to believe he is not really dedicated to the relationship and in serving Her on a 24/7 basis."


worshipper slave james s.'s Advice: "There seems to be a basic lack of commitment on the part of this slave. Apparently, he says he wishes to serve his Goddess and wishes to move to allow him to do this properly. But not only has he not made arrangements to move, he does not show proper respect while apart. Has he written Goddess an action plan regarding making the move possible? i believe this should be required of him. Not an exact time table, but at least a series of things he commits to doing to fullfill this promise. And he needs to be taken to task to make sure he follows this plan. Secondly, he need to show
proper respect when apart. he may email daily, but what has he actually done for his Goddess? And can he prove he has done it? Demands should be put on his service, demands which increase as time goes on if his action plan for moving does not show results. These are only the thoughts of a lowly slave, and i pray i have not spoken out of place. Thank You/you for
reading my words."


worshipper slave c.'s Advice: "Before offering any advice, it is important to know the slave's circumstances at his present location, so it can be determined how easily it would be to extricate himself from his present location and situation, to
determine a realistic time frame for the transition. Questions like the following have to be answered, to make a realistic appraisal of the situation:

a) Does the slave have a home that has to be sold?
b) Is his job specialized, limiting his options?

However, the primary point is that a slave should be with his Owner. Her needs and desires should be the slave's main concern. The amount of time that has transpired is not sufficient at this point, to be overly concerned about it. But the slave should be able to demonstrate to his Owner all of the attempts he has been making at re-locating, thus indicating his committment to Her. At 280 miles away, although not too close, the slave should be able to be with his Owner every weekend and not every 2-3 weeks.

All things being equal, as the slave shows a marked difference towards his Owner when he is with Her as compared to when he is away, my advice to Goddess K. is to forget this slave, as it appears that he is using Her just to cater to his needs, and not to Hers. If the slave was truly committed to this relationship and Female Supremacy, his Owner would be able to feel his dedication to Her."

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