Supreme Goddess Lorena's Advice: "It would be hard to enforce a slave contract that may not be worth anything with the vanilla legal system so a marriage contract may be more binding. But keep in mind that a marriage contract protects both parties. For example, if the slave husband lost his job and so his Wife ends up having to work to support them, or say they both work but She makes more that he does and then later the marriage ends in divorce, the Woman might then end up having to pay alimony to the ex-husband since She had been supporting him or since She had made more than him. A prenuptial contract may help to prevent this. Though, I have heard from a few people that a prenuptial may still not be solid and can still be disputed in court even after it has been signed and agreed upon by both parties. So since neither a slave contract nor a marriage contract is absolutely solid and protective, here are some ways the Woman may be able to protect Herself:
To the Woman I suggest:
-Enforce the rules that You set for him to follow from the very beginning and continue to enforce them 24/7. Never allow things to change to a more vanilla arrangement because You can never get it to go back to the way it used to be once You have allowed the change to take place.
-Establish a punish and a reward system. If he is good, reward him with what You know he likes (ie: time off to do what he likes, sex, his fetishes, etc). If he is bad, punish him with what You know he does not like (ie: extreme pain, spankings, humiliation, no release, etc) and take away his privileges. It is important to praise him when he does well and to punish or scold him when he has done poorly.
-Have him commit to You by having everything put in Your name and by giving You pictures, letters, and videos in which he states that he is Your slave by choice, that he gives himself to You, that all that he has is to be Yours and only Yours, and that he is doing this by his own choice.
-Have him tattooed or branded with a marking which clearly states that he is your slave.
-Have him sign a prenuptial agreement (done by a notary public or lawyer) in which You are looked after if the marriage should end in divorce. Just because he failed at being your slave husband does not mean You should not be looked after if the contract ends. There is no reason why You should be left to struggle without a home and a monthly income.
-Have him leave all to You in his will.
To the slave husband I say this:
-Remember what it was that you wanted from this arrangement/relationship in the very beginning. It is your duty to make sure that you live up to all of your promises or to at least try your best to.
-Never expect your Owner/Wife to work. She should only work if She wants to. If She prefers to stay home to be served 24/7 then so be it. She deserves to be catered to.
-If She prefers you to stay home instead of working or She prefers you to work at home then do so. you are to serve Her so you will do as She wishes. you do NOT live a second life outside of your home in which you do as you please and you only serve Her when you get home. She owns you no matter where you are and no matter what you are doing.
-All that was once yours is now Hers. She owns you and so also owns all that you once had.
-Sign a prenuptial in which She is looked
after if the marriage should end. Just because you failed at serving
Her does not mean She should have to struggle and be without a
home and a monthly income."
The Life of a slave
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Goddess Diana's Advice: "Pain and pleasure. Let him lick your toes
when he's good. Crush him between your thighs when he isn't."
worshipper slave tom s.'s Advice: "i don't know if
there is a 'best' way for a Superior Woman to make sure that Her
slave lives up to his slave contract, whether She marries him
or not. If She truly controls him through Her Superiority then
marriage won't matter. The trick is the same whether they are
married or not. She must want to keep him, with all his failures
and stupidity, for the relationship to work. he must be sincerely
submissive and have a very strong desire to stay devoted to just
Her. he must continue to work through his failures and continue
to strive to please Her.
In all the relationships that I have seen, one partner is always dominant to some extent. Any man willing to sign a slave contract in the first place probably wants the control that his Goddess delivers. These men 'need' their Goddess and even if they have a moment of independence, they'll always come crawling back. my recommendation is that the Superior Woman know Her slave well enough to keep him in line and that She shouldn't marry him until She is sure that She wants him. Keeping all financial accounts in Her name will also help control him. A man cannot 'escape' if he has no money to do so. Keep him dependent on You for everything and then Your power will be Absolute!"
worshipper slave bruce's Advice: "Well i realize that
my views are probably a bit radical, but i feel that in a marriage,
the only way for a Woman to totally exercise Her slave contract
is to have the slave transfer everything into his Goddess's name
beforehand. This would include all bank accounts, real estate,
cars, etc., thereby leaving himself totally dependent on his Goddess
for his existence. he then should be forced to sign a pre-nuptial
agreement waiving all rights to anything in the case of a divorce.
This would not only prove his total committment to his Goddess,
but also make him a better slave and ensure he will work very
hard to make his Goddess very happy and live only to please Her."
worshipper slave james s.'s Advice: "If a Woman marries
Her slave, she must maintain the status quo to ensure he lives
up to his contract. If he is not a willing slave, then he is not
worthy of Her. But if he truly wishes to be an obedient slave,
She only has to set the rules by which he must live. Iit is often
said of unruly children that they are only looking to have limits
set. Assuming a husband still has the responsibility of a career
to earn a living, he must be free to attend to it satisfactorily.
But beyond that, all his concerns must be to serving his Woman.
But if She were to show no needs or desires, it becomes difficult
for him to serve Her. So when he does something without being
asked which serves Her, it needs to be recognized. And when She
asks or demands something of him, it is important that his efforts
are recognized. Whether he completes tasks and/or serves Her successfully,
he needs to be told how he is doing. Otherwise, he has no way
of gauging himself. This of course does not absolve him from his
failures. he must always accept the blame when something is not
satisfactory for his Woman, regardless of Who/who he believes
is at fault.
Rule number one: It is always his fault.
Rule number two: If it is Her fault, see rule number one.
Treating a Woman properly in a vanilla world should not be difficult.
It is merely the proper way to conduct oneself. And if in question,
simply ask yourself, 'How would i behave in Femaria?'
If a man should become reluctant to serve
his Woman after marriage, it is difficult for Her to force him
to live up to his contract. In my humble opinion, it would probably
be better to rid Herself of such an ungrateful slob and find someone
worthy of Her."
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