Supreme Goddess Lorena's Advice: "It is the sad truth that those who live differently from the norm, and who might influence the people to live or think differently from the norm, are usually judged and persecuted for it. Jesus, the Christians, the Jews, witches, pagans, gays, and those who lived in Mount Carmel in Waco Texas, are proof of this.
If you do not mind being constantly judged by others around you then live in whatever way you will (so long as you do not take another person's life or harm another person against their wishes. Safe, sane, and consential. Note: Punishment that is deserving of a disobedient person who has previously signed a contract agreeing to such harsh treatment is considered as being consential.) and accept the consequences that go with living the lifestyle out in the open. Try not to offend people by displaying the lifestyle to them when you know they would rather not see it. However, in a crowd of 50 people you will have a greater chance at not offending each of the 50 people by slapping your slave as you would if you did it in front of a small dinner party of 5 people. Strangely enough, your odds of the 5 people being accepting of such behaviour are alot less than if there were 50 people present. I speak from experience.
But if you do not want to be constantly harassed about the way you live your own life then you will have to take some losses that goes with living a double life. You cannot wear a full leather outfit and thigh high boots to the grocery store and expect not to be harassed. You most likely would not tell your neighbours, boss, employees, parents, or relatives of your interest or lifestyle. If you have children you may not want to tell them or their teachers. However, if you lived in a lifestyle neighbourhood (if they exist at all), worked in a Fetish Store, had slaves as employees, have parents in the lifestyle (or if they would not care because they already suspect anyways), your relatives live far away (or are so messed up enough themselves that you would love to shock them by telling them), and your kids are old enough to know now (or they already suspect anyways) then you will be able to live alot more openly than the rest of us. Flaunt it, enjoy it, LIVE it if you dare. Just remember these main factors:
1. Dressing a certain way does get a
certain reaction and treatment from those around you. (Cause and
effect)
2. Once you tell someone, you cannot take it back.
3. Do not display yourself or your lifestyle in a manner that
is embarrassing, revolting, or offensive to those around you.
What you may love may disgust them and they have a right to not
have to witness things that they do not want to see. Keep it either
in the privacy of your own home or at a fetish club/party/resort.
4. Do not hide so much that it makes you miserable. Life is short.
Do not waste the small time you may have. Enjoy life by doing
whatever makes you feel good. (you cannot please everybody all
of the time.)
5. Do not hide so much that no slave or Mistress can find you."
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Reserved.
Goddess Diana's Advice: "If you're a postman,
you wear the postman's hat, even if it doesn't suit you. If you're
a milkman, you wear the stripey apron, even if it does look silly.
If you're a baker, you wear the white coat, it doesn't show the
flour. You dress for whatever role you do, while you're in that
role, and when you're not being a postman, milkman or baker, you
wear what you want. My world is more chocolate-flavoured than
vanilla."
worshipper slave tom s.'s Advice: "Almost everybody
lives a double life in some ways. People have a way of behaving
'in public' that usually differs from how they act 'in private'.
Different people have different interests that are considered
out of the norm in certain settings so they 'hide' them appropriately.
Around people who share these interests (whether they are sexual
or not) and in the right context, they are able to express themselves
openly. This is true no matter what type of interest (or behavior)
you are talking about (homosexuality, necrophelia, Opera, or foreign
films).
For example, an Opera singer doesn't just bust out in a soliloquy in a crowded movie theatre. There is a time and place for everything, including observing the obvious reality of Female Supremacy. As any man familiar with the Truth behind Female Supremacy knows, there are specific ways to behave that your Goddess enforces you to obey. Kneeling before your Goddess at all times may be 'inappropriate' in certain circumstances but placing Her first in your mind and actions at all times is not. If the male slave remains strong in his devotion to keeping the Goddess on the pedestal that She deserves then everything else will take care of itself. Always Respect, Love, Cherish, and Honor your commitment to Her. It is never acceptable under any circumstances for the male to forget his number one purpose in life, to make his Goddess' life better.
It is obvious to me in my role of complete servitude that there will be times when my Goddess will want me to be in control of some things (getting my work done at my job, paying bills perhaps, or even handling outside nuisances for Her and making them go away). A male slave is not entitled to turn over all his responsibilities the minute he commits to a Goddess. Quite the contrary, he must now continue to handle all his roles and make his Goddess' life better. She will take control of the decisions in his life that She wants to, everything else falls back on the male slave to do his best, day in and day out. The Goddess DESERVES the best that each of her slaves can give Her which may include situations where the slave will be forced to think about how his 'public' actions will affect his Goddess. If he must disobey one command in order to protect his Goddess from something worse then this slave has succeeded in his mission (even though he may have to be punished for it).
Each male slave has his own burden of trying his best to be of some use to his Goddess. For me personally, i must continue to do a good job at my work so that i can be of more benefit to my Goddess, the incredible Queen of Femaria, and continue to make Her life better. As long as i never lose site of my position as Her property and i use my best judgement on how to behave so as to remain useful to Her forever, then i will have succeeded."
worshipper slave bruce's Advice: "Yes this can be
a problem. Unfortunately, society has not accepted Female Supremacy
as the way it should be, and in order to exist in today's world,
unless they are financially well off and do not need to make a
living, they must live a sort of double life in order to hold
jobs and mingle with the majority. This being said, i strongly
believe
that both sexes should do whatever they can to promote the life
style and change the way people think. For example, a man in the
work place can be very courteous and subservient to the secretaries
there. When i worked in an office, i used to do things like offer
to run errands for the girl's, ask the switchboard girl if She
wanted me to relieve Her for a break (i was in management and
this was a very subservient act), even offer to wash their cars,
etc. without doing anything blatant like kneeling in public to
kiss their feet (which i really felt i should be doing). And though
i cannot speak for the Woman in the workplace, there are similar
ways She can carry Herself to promote the Female Supremacy lifestyle
without causing any tension among the vanilla people. Hope this
makes sense."
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