From the video The Life of a slave
"How can a man who wants to be a 24/7 slave, possibly manage to serve a Woman 24/7?"
worshipper slave anthony m.'s Advice: "No slave, no matter how devoted, can ever
be a slave 24/7. But this is part of the fun, for his Mistress
can punish him for his failures...in effect, for not being perfect.
All he can do is his best, which is never good enough. Which is
why Goddess invented whips, chastity devices and nipple clamps."
worshipper slave tom s.'s Advice: "This is a most
difficult question because it all depends on how You define 24/7.
For the purposes of this discussion i will define it as the sincere
desire by a subserviant man to try and please his Goddess constantly.
This may be a relationship where the man lives with the Goddess,
doing Her housework, providing every luxury that he can afford,
and taking on all the responsibilities that She does not want
to control. But it could also be a situation where Your Goddess
is a beautiful Web Domme who controls Your entire life because
you change the focus of your life to making Her's better. Either
way, if you sincerely want to experience a 24/7 relationship,
expect to hand over control completely to She who owns you.
Your motivation for everything must become satisfying Her needs and desires. This will probably include accepting the fact that you will not be able to do it all and that you must 'share' Her with others. In fact, the idea that you are 'sharing' Her is wrong because She owns you, not the other way around. You must commit yourself to the fact that your only future enjoyment in life is tied to how well you service Her and how willing She is to show you appreciation. Believe me when i say that the experience of 24/7 servitude is not as out of the ordinary as some might think. Imagine changing the focus of your life from yourself (looking out for number 1) and placing your current Girlfriend, Goddess, Mistress, or Wife (etc.) as the center of your attention. How would you act differently? That is what you need to ask yourself. Would you listen more closely to Her words? Pay more attention to Her moods and signals? Would you be willing to accept more and more chores so that She can enjoy Her life more?
You don't need to be living with a Domme to create a 24/7 relationship. Concentrate on making the life of the Woman who You are currently serving happier and more fulfilling. 24/7 doesn't have to mean you doing housework all day on your knees. How about just doing more housework and thinking about Her needs only. Changing your focus and concentrating on Her will be the key to how well you succeed. Know that there will be times when you fail her. No one can go 24/7 and not make mistakes or grow disinterested during periods of time. The key to success will be to control your emotions and never lose site on what you really want - your Goddess to be happy!"
worshipper slave bruce's Advice: "This is a very interesting
question. In my mind, there are a lot of wannabe male slaves who
say they want to serve a Female on a 24/7 basis but in reality
it is just a fantasy for them. In order for this to work, the
man must be totally committed to his Mistress in every way. he
must pamper Her daily and obey Her without question. Everything
he owns should be put in Her name as money is power and doing
this makes him totally dependent on Her which is as it should
be. his sole purpose in life should be to please Her and make
Her happy. Also he must learn that sex or even a release is not
something which should be taken for granted, but rather a privilege
which must be earned. i know some couples in a 24/7 relationship
where the man even has to wear a chastity belt and his Mistress
has the key. This is another way for the man to prove how totally
devoted he is to Her, as his sexual release is totally dependent
on his behavior. Most Women do not know the power they actually
possess over a man. Perhaps in the future, more will discover
it. Serving a Mistress 24/7 is really an honor every slave should
strive for. Few can actually handle it though."
Supreme Goddess Lorena's Advice: "If a man wants something badly enough, he can
accomplish anything as long as he tries hard. However, many men
want to be 24/7 without even knowing all that it entails, so after
a period of time he may find that he is incapable of doing it
24/7 or he may at least think that he is unable to and so he will
give up. This wastes the Woman's most precious and valuable time.
Some people who are already in a 24/7 'relationship' may find that the slave tends to get demanding, selfish, and argumentative if he feels he does not have enough time for himself, get time away from serving Her, or get to have the things he likes. So the secret to a successful 24/7 commitment is for the slave to have time off on the right occasion and often enough but not too often. I refer to it as 'vanilla time' or 'casual time'.
I find that 24/7 ends up going too vanilla if the Women gives in too much and too often to what he wants or if She gives him too much time off. It is similiar to spoiling a child. The more you give, the more they want. they tend to manipulate for more control and they may also try to top from the bottom. Topping from the bottom is a selfish act. Due to these problems I find that My own fulltime slaves and 24/7's only last one to two years. It is as though their warranty runs out. A solution might be for a Woman to marry a slave but then again She risks it going even more vanilla than ever. I would prefer slaves over a husband any day!
To the Woman, I recommend:
1. Study Your slave(s) well.
2. Try to recognize and know when he needs time off. Give it to
him but do not allow it to go on for too long or too often. If
he gets a taste of freedom for too long he may eventually drift
away from serving You as well as he used to.
3. If he fails to serve You well enough, whether he has time off
or not, then find a slave who will. There are always more slaves
out there who are willing to serve You and they are always begging
for the chance to prove it to You. You deserve only the best of
slaves.
To the slave, I recommend:
1. Get to know yourself well enough that
you know when you need a break. you do not want to jeopardize
losing Her by 'snapping', rebelling against Her, or defying Her.
2. Learn how to ask for this time off in a most appropriate and
mannerly way. If She requires you to continue to serve Her at
that moment and so does not want to give you this time off then
accept it and wait patiently for a time when it will be more convenient
for Her. It might be wise to consider finding Her another slave
who will serve Her either temporarily, part-time, or fulltime
so that you can have the time off.
3. Continue to serve Her at least in some way while you have the
time off so that She is not inconvenienced in any way.
4. Go back to serving Her as soon as possible so She does not
consider discarding you altogether for a better slave."
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