FemDom and male slave advice-18



"How come so many Femdoms say they're a Female Supremist but they own Female slaves?"

Goddess Lorena's Advice: For every term within the BDSM scene there is a meaning. Sometimes those meanings may vary slightly depending on who has written them and that can especially happen if the writer/person wants to change the meaning of a term to better suit their own beliefs and interests (Christianity and Catholicism is a good example of that. Even clinton had made up his own convenient term for what can be considered as being sex). But there is a standard and original meaning for each BDSM term from when it first originated. Female Supremacy is not listed in the dictionary/thesauras I have but Supremacy is.

Supremacy: 'Supreme power; authority' or 'The quality or condition or being supreme.'

Supreme: 'Of highest status or power' or 'Of highest quality, importance, etc.' or 'Greatest in degree; final or last, ultimate.'

But are these descriptions the way We/we as Female Supremists view them? No exactly. When most submissive males think of Female Supremacy, they do not think of a Supreme Woman who has power over all other persons (whether Women or men) and who is of higher quality than all other persons. Instead, the male submissive imagines a world where all Women rule over men. It may have a Queen who reigns as leader of the planet but he does not see Female slaves running about that world, serving other Women. he sees only men catering to the whims of the Women who rule that planet. Seeing Women as slaves in that world would ruin the image that he has of Female Supremacy. he would see it as being a contradiction to his beliefs.

Matriarchy is another word that is often used alongside Female Supremacy. Here is what My dictionary says the meaning to Matriarchy is:

Matriarchy: 'A form of social organization in which the Female is head of the family or society, and descent and kinship are traced through the Female line.' or 'Any society dominated by Women.'

It does not mention that any Woman within such an organization or society dominates another Woman. It simply states that ALL Women rule as opposed to men ruling.

I have never yet met a man who claims to be both a submissive male and most importantly a Female Supremist yet he also switches (doms Women at times) and likes to dom and own Female slaves. That would not make him a believer in Female Supremacy. So the same would also apply to any Woman who says that She is a Female Supremist. She would not be a real believer in it if She doms Women as well as men. That would simply just make Her a Dominant Woman (FemDom). Although, She could label Herself as being Supreme or Superior if She believed, and/or wanted others to belief, that She is Supreme or Superior compared to other Women and/or men.

I believe that Women who advertise themselves as being a Female Supremist but who dominate Females and own Females as slaves, are not real Female Supremists. She would be using the term incorrectly and thus be living a contradiction.

I have been a Female Supremist all My life. I have yet to find any website besides My own which advertises to be run by real Female Supremists but who do NOT dominate Women as well as men. Some of these sites hide it well but if you inquire and look deeply enough into the site, you will eventually find the contradiction.

Why would a Woman dominate another Women? I feel it could very well be due to Women's natural instinct to feel jealous of, and the need to compete with, other Women. Dominating another Woman gives Her a chance to lower and abuse another Woman, thus, in Her eyes, beating the competion. Although, if She were a lesbian then this may not be the case afterall since jealousy would most likely not be an issue. When talking to two lesbians about BDSM, both had told Me that they feel ALL relationships are about power and that in bed one person always dominates over the other, regardless of whether the relationship involves BDSM or not. I was most surprised to hear that they felt this way about relationships in general.

But no matter what the reason is as to why a Woman dominates another, I feel it is wrong to do so since I believe all Women should be equal to one another, thus forever disposing of Women's natural tendency to feel insecure, jealous, and competitive of other Women.

Copyright © 2001, 2002 Supreme Goddess Lorena. All Rights Reserved.


Goddess Alison's Advice: "Oh I'm not the least bit shocked by this question!! Boy have I ever learned tons since working with Supreme Goddess Lorena. Theirs some web sites I really liked before but now I know what their really all about now. It would really blow your mind to know the truth. Gosh it's so sad their aren't more web sites like Goddess club and more Female supremasts like Her. Why do so many Women lie about what they are? Why not be honest to everyone? I guess it's all about the money. They make more moola if they put up a fake front and suck you in before you learn the truth. Hey maybe if slaves didn't lie about what they are too I guess the Mistress's wouldn't lie right back at them. I dunno why doesn't everybody just be truthful!!"


Goddess Diana's Advice: "Not everyone can be a goddess."


Goddess Carole's Advice: "I don't have first hand knowledge of this topic but it seems to me that Female Supremacists are really hypocritical if they have female slaves. Female Supremacy, as I understand it based on the teachings of Supreme Goddess Lorena, is based on the premise that females are indeed supreme and should be the dominant power in the relationship. Females who are subserviant then are not fulfilling their supreme destiny. True female supremacists would not subjegate other females to this lesser status. Hence, some who proclaim their female supremacy are likely simply mortal
sensualists who do not subscribe to a doctrine of female supremacy. I have been empowered by the doctrine of female supremacy and I continue to grow within that doctrine towards my ultimate destiny."


Lady Kyla's Advice: "I think most dommes who own female slaves are not really female supremists. But, I suppose there could be some bisexual dommes who can be respectfully dominant of Women who are submissve by nature, but still agree that men are beneath all Women, submissive or dominant. "


Lady Christine's Advice: "From text carved on the wall of Hatchepsut’s mortuary temple at Deir el-Bahri: “She shall sit on this marvellous dais. She shall direct the commons in every sphere of the palace. It is She who will lead you. Obey Her words and unite yourselves at Her command”

There are two distinct views on what is meant by female supremacy.

The first view, which is the one I personally subscribe to, is that women throughout history have always been regarded as inferior to men, have held less prominent positions in society, and have by their gender been excluded from obtaining many of the benefits, privileges and positions of authority traditionally reserved for men. There is no good reason for this - it is just pure male arrogance. Even where there have been great female rulers, and there have not been many in comparison to the number of male rulers - just 6 female Pharoahs in Egypt (and some of those are in doubt and most had very short reigns), 6 Queens of England - invariably they were surrounded and supported by men of influence in powerful positions. For too long now women have been suppressed and in too many cases have been abused and cruelly treated by men that there is a growing movement of women who feel it is high time to turn the tables. Because this goes against centuries, if not millennia of tradition and conditioning it is going to be tough. This is why We women all need to be tough and unflinching and absolutely firm with Our male slaves and with men in general and is probably why they give Us so much trouble and grief at times. They are simply not used to listening to Us and taking Us seriously. Increasingly, there are men also who recognise this and want to see the tables turned. Although they are in a minority, it is a very encouraging sign. The only way the tables can be really turned is for as many men as possible to be relegated to positions of subservience and to emphasise the inherent superiority of women over men. This needs all You dominant women out there to unite in this great quest to put men back firmly in their place as Our servants and slaves so We get treated with the respect that We so clearly deserve and have been denied in too many cases for too long.

The second view is that female supremacy simply requires that those in charge be women and it does not matter whether Their slaves are male or female - they are just slaves. Clearly this does not redress the balance of power between men and women nearly so effectively as the first view. Nevertheless it has to be accepted that there are a significant number of women who want to be subservient and submissive either to a Mistress or a master and it is not for those of us who take the first view to want to deny them their wish. All women should be free to pursue what they want - even if it is to be subservient."


worshipper slave tom s.'s Advice: "i certainly cannot refute my Supreme Goddess, Goddess Lorena's position on this subject so i know that it is wrong for true believers in Female Supremacy to own other Female slaves but i can certainly 'understand' their desire to do so.

i know from personal experience how hard i was to train in the reality of Female Supremacy by my eternal Goddess, Goddess Lorena, and she is a gifted teacher! It's not hard to imagine that other Goddesses who recognize that they are Superior, and therefore deserve to be served, could find training males to be very hard work (and often unrewarding). Putting myself in Their shoes i would be very tempted to accept the service of an obviously Superior Female slave whenever i would have the chance. Even if a Dominant Female knew and believed that Her Female slave was a fellow Superior being, She could convince Herself that Her servants choice of servitude is an expression of Her Superiority. Even in serving another Woman She could prove how Superior Women are to men.

One could argue that since Females are naturally Superior that if one Female chooses to serve another Female, She is merely expressing Her natural gift to appreciate other women. i guess what i really mean is that there are all types of Women and some of them can more readily appreciate what other Women can do. Even in a Femaria there are leaders among the Women and it would seem natural to assume that some of the Superior women would still want to honor their leaders in the most permanent way possible (by becoming the powerful Woman's slave). They might be naturally submissive and they shouldn't be denied the pleasure of being in constant service to a Woman who they love and admire. Why should permanent slave status to a powerful Woman be a right reserved only for lowly male slaves?

i know that i consider myself very lucky to be enslavened to my original Owner and the love of my life, my Wife. But i'll always care immensely for my trainer and the Greatest Woman i've ever known, the Supreme Goddess, Goddess Lorena, Boss of Goddess Club and Queen of Femaria."


worshipper slave bruce's Advice: "That is a question that has always bothered me. As a Female Supremacist, i feel that all Females should be put on a pedestal and worshipped. i am not comfortable when i hear the term 'Female slaves'. my opinion as to why this occurs is it is purely for sexual reasons. A lot of Female Supremacists are Lesbian and do not want anything to do with men in a sexual manner. This said, i do feel that any Female Supremacist who owns a Female slave would certainly treat them better than a male and obviously view them as being Superior to the other gender. Nevertheless, though i know this does occur a lot, i myself do not feel this is proper and would never serve a Domme who had Female slaves in Her stable. my motto has always been: A Female's ass was meant to be kissed, a man's meant to be spanked. That should be the way of the world."


worshipper slave x.j.'s Advice: "Not all dominant Women are Female supremacists. But, those that are-do sometimes own female slaves as well as male slaves. In such stituations, the female slave will be submissive to the Mistress, but still dominant to the males. She will be 'second in command', so to speak, in the pecking order. Thus, the female slave could still be considered superior to all the male slaves. While a Mistress who believes in Female Supremacy may have a female slave, She will never allow a male to control or order the female slave around. If She did, then She would be definitely going against the principles that She is supposed to live by."


worshipper slave c.'s Advice: "This is a very interesting topic in that it opens up a number of related issues. Firstly, there is the obvious question about a Woman who claims She is a Female Supremacist but the majority of Her web site is dedicated to Women dominating Women (Females having Female slaves) and One/one has to wonder how it relates to Female Supremacy. Female Supremacy is the belief in the inate superiority of the Female over the male and Her right to own him as Her slave. Females owning Female slaves is not Female Supremacy, has nothing to do with Female Supremacy and should not be labeled as such.

The fact that a Woman has Female slaves is more of an indicator of a professional in the sex trade catering to the sexual whims and fantasies of Her male clientele who get off on the degradation and dehumanization of Women. It shows a blatant disrespect towards the Female, the complete opposite of what Female Supremacy stands for, Female authority over the male and his acceptance of the Female as his sovereign. The obvious reason behind this misrepresentation is that the vast majority of these sites, if not all of them, are owned by men who are only in it for monetary gain, trying to attract as many males onto their sites as possible. But One/one has to wonder if there are any ulterior motives behind a Woman claiming She is a Female Supremacist, who genuinely lives this lifestyle on a 24/7 basis, yet in many cases a site visitor is hard pressed to find Females actually
dominating males in the pictures on the site and in too many there is a Woman and a male together dominating and degrading a Woman. This is not Female Supremacy. If anything, it appears to be an attempt by those opposed to Female Supremacy to adulterate and water down its meaning by attaching the label of Female Supremacy to unrelated subjects, thus undermining the concept and rendering it inept.

A true Female Supremacist site elevates the Female onto a pedestal to be worshipped and adored by Her male slave. These sites are very rare and hard to find and as a member of Goddess Club i cannot say enough about Goddess Lorena and Her untiring efforts to bring Us/us a site that is dedicated to Female Supremacy in its purest form."


worshipper slave roger k.'s Advice: "i'm not sure why so many femdoms own female slaves, it's a puzzle to me. Maybe it's because of the jealousy that exists between some Women, so that's probably why many femdoms own female slaves, they have difficulties considering other women as their equal. i'm not sure, i'm no expert on this matter, i believe that Women are more intelligent than men and intelligence unfortunately have it's bad sides too. However, i have a lot of respect for every femdom even though some of them own other females as slaves. At least they accepted the notion that they're superior to men, the next step would be to accept that other Women are equal to them."

worshipper slave danny k.'s Advice: "As with any label, 'conservative', 'liberal', 'pro-lifeist', or 'Feminist', there are those that claim they are a part of that group and support those beliefs, but in reality, they most likely support only some of the ideals
and beliefs, and do not support it totally. Some only support a group for their own personal benefit, not for that of the group. There are alot of Femdoms who will fall into this catagory. Many Femdoms claim they are Female Supremists simply because they are dominant Females and are supreme to Their slaves. Others believe They fall into this catagory because They do believe They are superior Females. In both cases, They may have a male in Their life that is considered an equal, or may even be Their Domme. As well, They may also have Females serving Them as Their slave. The desire of a Femdom to have a Female slave may be the result of several different factors, such as sexual orientation, or that She prefers a Female slave for particular duties. There is one other factor that may give explanation for Femdoms having Female slaves. Within every group, or catagory, there are the weak and those who just do not fit in. In Female Supremacy, if a Female is weak and submissive, She can still serve good towards the cause by supporting and serving Her Femdom, even if it is as Her slave, but must never serve a male, and must always remain Superior to all males. As males, we must realize and understand that we are inferior to all Females, and all Females are our Superiors, regardless of Their stature in life. The Female gender was created to rule over the weaker male gender, giving order and longivity to the world and universe, this is the natural order of life."


worshipper slave m.'s Advice: "It has always confused me to see Dominant Women claim to be into Female Supremacy but at the same time they own Female slaves. To me it is a contradiction. i suspect what they really believe in is 'Personal' Supremacy. In otherwords, they see themselves as superior and will reign over any male or Female that is submissive. They simply enjoy being Dominant. Another possibility is that they are Professional Dommes as a means of income and although they believe in Female Supremacy, they will take any customers that are willing to pay for services, regardless of whether they are male or Female. It might not be their preferred choice but putting food on the table is essential. In their private life they may not
consider having a Female personal slave out of respect for Female Supremacy."

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