Goddess Lorena's Advice:
"Indeed one might think that training a slave online or by
email might lack some important training techniques that can only
be done in person, such as beating a slave, slapping his face,
glaring at him until he fears your wrath and then admits to his
mistake and grovels at your feet for forgiveness, etc. But I have
trained slaves both in person and by email and an uncountable
high amount of those email slaves have been trained very successfully.
I could even honestly say that there is more success in training
slaves online and by email than in person since slaves who see
Mistresses in person have generally have not even yet earned the
privilege of being in Her presence and do not know how to act
in person so they behave foolishly and are very demanding about
getting their fetishes fulfilled. They are too entranced by Her
attractive appearance and outfit to really listen to what She
has to say and to obey Her commands. Whereas an email slave has
many more advantages over an in person "session slave".
For instance, he can be trained from anywhere in the world and
he need not answer his Trainer's email right away if he is too
busy to. he can also give himself time to think of the right thing
to say to his Trainer before responding back (a wonderful advantage
since men often put their own foot in their mouth by saying inappropriate
things at the wrong time). he may also have a roommate, kids,
and/or a Wife and so if he is careful and discreet, being trained
online and by email can be done without anyone knowing about it.
This is especially good for the married slave who wants to learn
how to serve his Wife better but who feels very certain that She
would not understand his kinky and fetish interests or his being
trained by another Woman.
Email training can include many other great things that people
may not realize. For example, I also include video training and
assignments in with email training. When slaves in training see
what I want them to do and how to do it then they have a much
better understanding of it. Also, if they have an interest in
being owned by Me after they pass training then they can become
alot more devoted and work harder towards this goal once they
see My image on their screen. It also helps if I talk to the camera
as this makes him feel that I am talking directly to him and thus
making him obey My commands more.
As well, in email training I can send out voice recorded emails
and pictures as a reward. I can also punish quite severely by
email such as by YELLING AT HIM! I can also lock him up in My
slave doghouse in Goddess club and surprisingly enough all slaves
who get locked up in it feel quite ashamed and embrassed to be
punished this way as they know that everyone who sees him in there
knows that he has displeased Me. To punish him further I sometimes
command him to bark like a dog in order to be let out. Most slaves
who get locked up in the doghouse beg profusely to be let out
and it is easy to tell that they are not just play acting. they
truly hate being publicly humiliated and displayed for all to
see when he has displeased Me. Most slaves are in fact very proud
creatures. So if you ever thought doubtful of whether a slave
would take email training as seriously as in person training,
I will put it to you rather simply: Email training is taken
seriously as long as the slave who is being trained thinks of
it as being serious. If he tries to be dishonest and does not
obey My commands from miles away then he is only lying to himself.
Training by chat and telephone is also just as effective but I
have found that most slaves do not think of themselves as being
worthy of such a privilege as recieving a telephone call from
Me or meeting Me in chat or icq. Even though they say that hearing
My voice makes them want to melt, they often confess that they
feel too nervous when they hear My voice or when they are chatting
with Me since they do not have time to think of appropriate things
to say, whereas writing an email gives them plenty of time to
think. (they are unlike the average male in which they care much
more about not wanting to upset a Woman by saying the wrong thing
or by making any mistakes.) So even though I do honour slaves
with a telephone call and icq training, most slaves prefer email
over telephone or chat training simply because they feel they
do much better in an email.
Though there are still disadvantages to emails. Quite often enough
things can be misinterpreted in an email. Especially if the person
has had a bad day or they have already read a few bad emails before
they get around to reading yours. So it helps to keep an open
mind and to give the other person the benefit of the doubt. (In
other words if you know the person well enough and know that they
would not normally say such a thing then most likely they did
not mean it in the way that it came across in their email.) No
matter who you are, whether you are a Dom or a sub, Woman or a
man, and no matter how you are feeling when you write your email,
always be polite in your emails, remembering that the reciever
on the other end of it is a living and breathing human being too.
(Even more so if you are writing to a Goddess. She deserves to
be treated with respect at all times, regardless of the situation
and how you might be feeling at the time.) All too often people
take advantage of emails as being just another way to be rude
to an anonymous stranger who they feel they may never have to
meet face to face. But never say never. And even if you do
in fact never end up crossing paths with the person again, karma
exists and so what you do will come back to you regardless. It
is the natural order of cause and effect that brings the balance
to life that it needs in order for it to run smoothly. But if
that is too deep for you then just remember this: People do not
forget those who have wronged them.
So to answer your question, I recommend email, telephone, chat,
and video training since I have been training slaves in that way
successfully for almost 5 years now and My forever growing list
of slaves in My slave stable speaks for itself as being proof
of that success. It is something that I very much enjoy doing.
It gives Me a great sense of satisfaction and fulfillment when
a trainee slave passes his training to become one of My worshippers
and when I recieve a flood of emails from new applicants looking
to be trained. I cannot think of a better way to spend My most
valuable and precious time other than by training men how to serve
and worship Me and/or all Womankind in general. I like helping
people and I love being served and so since training slaves accomplishes
both I could not think of anything else I would rather be doing."
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worshipper slave bruce's Advice: "i think a sincere slave can be trained
remotely as long as he demonstrates a genuine desire to serve
unconditionally and devote himself fully in the worship of his
Goddess. As far as physical discipline not being available, sometimes
other methods are far more effective. i think i would prefer 20
strokes of the cane to being posted in Goddess Lorena's doghouse
for example. Physical pain goes away, mental pain is far worse.
It takes the right type of Goddess to know how to control a slave
in this manner. And once the bond is created, it only reinforces
the next logical step, which is when the slave finally gets to
serve his Goddess in person."
worshipper slave c.'s Advice: "In the establishment
of a Female Supremacist society, the training of slaves is a fundamental
component in that it redefines the Female/male relationship into
its natural state. The process of training a slave involves several
steps beginning initially by his remote instruction and direction
by the Female. This step is of utmost importance in a slave's
development, as it gives the Female a chance to evaluate a prospective
slave to see if She really wants to continue the training and
perhaps eventually owning him.
A slave should look upon this period as an opportunity to demonstrate to the Female that he is a true submissive, genuinely committed to Female Supremacy and wants to be owned by Her. She will administer punishments and rewards as She sees fit. She will do this remotely from a distance gauging the slave's responses, making adjustments as She deems fit, without any physical contact. It is not a session with a professional Dominatrix to satisfy a male's masochistic desires.
Speaking from personal experience as
a slave having undergone this training with my Owner, Goddess
Lorena, i am impressed and in awe of the Female in Her capacity
and ingenuity to control and train the male to Her wishes. The
physical punishment of a slave will eventually come only after
he proves to the Female that he truly is a slave and She grants
him the honour to meet with Her. It is up to the slave to perform
for his Trainer as She directs, demonstrating to Her his complete
and unconditional submission. Only in this way will a slave graduate
to the next level of enslavement and begin to realize that the
training of a slave is an ongoing process, as your Owner takes
you deeper into slavery you will attain an understanding of the
male's true purpose of being and fulfillment. A slave is not a
slave until he is allowed into the presence of his Owner, to kneel
naked before Her and pay homage to Her feet."
worshipper slave danny k.'s Advice: "Physical discipline
is an effective tool for training slaves, as well it can also
be a source of pleasure to the Domme as She is amused by his suffering.
However, when a slave is hundreds or thousands of miles away,
administering physical discipline would seem to be out of the
question.
There are other forms of punishment that work to aid the Domme in Her task of training a slave. Humiliation, isolation, and emotional abuse are some methods i have experienced and know to work. Goddess Lorena has developed a very effective 'dog house', which serves to subject the slave to all of these. In Her 'dog house', a slave or trainee will feel the sting of humiliation, knowing that all who view the website will most likely see he is in there, and know he is in there because he has dis-pleased Goddess. he will also feel isolated, as Goddess may not answer any of his emails begging Her forgiveness. he will be Her dog while there, and know he is not worthy of even being a male slave, he is an 'it' while serving time in Her 'dog house'.
Today there are methods for the Domme
to administer forms of physical discipline over the internet,
or phone lines, that can be very effective, and may also add to
the scenero, humiliation and emotional abuse. With the development
of digital cameras and videoconferencing, a Domme can use these
technologies to train Her email slaves with results similar to
in-person training. There is also the phone, or cell phone. These
can provide a means of feedback assuring the slave follows through
with Her demands, including those requiring the slave to spank
himself or self-administer physical punishment ordered by his
Goddess/Mistress/Domme."
worshipper slave tom s.'s Advice: "Your question is
very interesting and i believe that i have true insight from my
own personal journey through my education of Female Supremacy.
A male submissive who truly understands and believes in the Truth of Female Supremacy seeks approval and validation from his Goddess. Receiving approval and acknowledgement from his Goddess is what he continually strives for and what he quickly realizes that he cannot live without.
If a male slave fails his training and his Goddess points how his limitations, she has the ultimate disciplinary action, even in email/phone training type relationships. She can ignore him! Nothing is worse then developing a relationship with a Goddess that a male can truly respect, trust, and worship, and then having that relationship severed by the object of his desire.
The whole reason that some males are drawn to serving Females is because they realize deep inside that the Female is always Superior to the male and the best way that they can be satisfied after realizing their own inferiority is to be of some real use to the Superior Female. Therefore, offering their slavery and obedience to a Superior Goddess allows then to achieve some worth of their own. If the Woman that they have accepted as their Goddess rejects them and pays no attention to them, they will realize again just how worthless they are without a Woman to serve.
i speak from personal experience that i know i would be less than half of the man i am today without the guidance and nurturing of my Wife. i would be completely lost and looking for a Goddess to guide me if i wasn't serving her. i know just how deeply i need her and how she makes my life better. And of course, none of this would have happened without the generous training that i received from the Most Wonderful Goddess Lorena.
Love, Adoration, Worship, Honor, and
Peace to She who is above all others, Supreme Goddess, Goddess
Lorena, Boss of Goddess Club and Queen of Femaria."
worshipper slave x.j.'s Advice: "To me, email training
is just a priming phase. It allows the Mistress to get to know
the slave, and test the slave. In Our/our crazy times it can be
used effectively to filter out the fruitcakes that might approach
a Mistress for training.
On a personal leave, my email training with Goddess Lorena has been great. It was just what i was looking for at the time. (i would have been too nervous to serve a Mistress in person right away.) Over the year, Goddess Lorena and i have built a very real relationship through weekly exchanges.
Nevertheless, email training and phone training has it's limits. There is a big difference between writing an electronic letter and serving a Mistress in person. One can only do so much over the internet.
Personally, i would not consider a slave
fully trained until he has served a Mistress in person for a considerable
length of time."
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