worshipper slave bruce's Advice: "My answer to this question is simple.
Just because you believe in Female Supremacy and want to serve
Your Goddess does not make you a "wimp." If you cater
to Your Goddess daily and exist just to please Her and make Her
life easier, She will of course appreciate your efforts and treat
you with respect. It is when you behave like a lot of slaves who
are only into fetishes and try to even "top from the bottom"
that She will treat you with disdain and show you no respect because
you deserve none. IMO it is this latter type of slave who is the
"wimp" and deserves to be treated as such."
worshipper slave c.'s Advice: "A successful Mistress/slave
relationship begins with the slave understanding his place in
relation to his Owner as Her property, Her chatel. he is Her slave,
Her subordinate in a Female dominated, Female Supremacist context.
They/they are not equals. She is above and he beneath Her. With
his surrender a slave demonstrates his love and trust for his
Mistress and that She will keep him safe.
A slave should at no time associate his subordinate status, his submission and surrender to Females to the term "wimp", as this is both disrespectful and undermines the position of the Female; the natural order of the Female above the male. A male should look upon his enslavement to Women as an honour and privilege in serving his Superiors, not a sign of weakness and wimpishness. he does not cease to be a human being by submitting to Females, only becomes more enlightened in accepting Female Rule. Any degradation, humiliation and discipline a Female administers to a slave is for the slave's own good and benefit, to further condition and reinforce in the slave's mind the relative Female/male position in life.
A Mistress/slave relationship has two basic requirements of the slave that are of equal importance. Firstly, he must be totally submissive and devoted to his Owner. Completely dedicated to Female Supremacy and Domination. Secondly, the slave must at all times be prepared to defend and protect his Owner from males that have not yet come to terms with recognizing and accepting the superiority of the Female and their true role in life as slaves to the Female. Failure for a slave to fulfill his obligation to defend and protect his Owner is what makes him a "wimp".
Teamwork is the key, where dedication,
cooperation and participation of all parties is essential to achieve
a meaning and beneficial Mistress/slave relationship."
worshipper slave danny k.'s Advice: "Being wimpy and
being a slave are not the same thing, though they are often mistaken
to be the same. As long as a slave is respectful, he may ask permission
to speak to his Owner and discuss things on his mind. Asking permission,
being respectful, and never talking down to his Owner, a slave
is usually given the opportunity to say what's on his mind, and
even may offer his opinion. Honesty, faithfullness, loyalty, and
respect are the base traits of a good slave. None of these traits
would indicate weakness, only a true desire to serve and honor
your Owner with the respect Her position justly requires. Honesty
will allow the Goddess to develop respect for the slave as well,
along with the other traits you display. It is important to communicate
with honesty and respect to your Goddess, the feelings you have,
and your thoughts and concerns. As well, you must listen and pay
attention to what She says. Doing this will develop a team effort,
resulting in a mutually gratifying D/s relationship."
worshipper slave roger k.'s Advice: "i believe that
in a Domme/sub relationship, both partners have to work together
to make their relationship last. It takes a lot of courage to
recognize the superiority of Women and even more to become a Goddess's
slave. i'm pretty sure that team work is a big part of long lasting
relationships."
worshipper slave x.j.'s Advice: "i believe every relationship
must have a give and take no matter what the type may be. Once
the relationship becomes only one person working at it, it soon
fails. And, why is it assumed that the dominant does no work?
Sometimes the dominant gives more than the submissive.
There is also the assumption that a man who is the slave to a woman is a wimp. However, many Pro Dom's will tell you that some of the most powerful men in society are their slave's. Just because a man serves a Woman does not mean that he is the world's doormat. In fact, the slave may need to be more of a man then most men. No Woman wants to own a man that is a wimp. She wants to know that She owns a man that has strength and self-confidence. Otherwise, where is the challenge in being his Mistress? Why would any Woman want to own a wimp?
The relationship between a Mistress and Her slave is much like that between a horse owner and Her horse. What owner would come up to someone and say, "Isn't this horse great? See how wimpy it is?". A horse owner wants to be proud of his horse and say, "Look at this mighty and powerful horse. And, i have tamed him!"
There is another very important and practical reason why a slave can not be a wimp. In many cases, the slave may need to work in the real world to support himself and his Goddess. And, order to do that, he needs to have a certain amount of aggression in his career path.
Finally, the last reason why a slave cannot be a wimp is that a Mistress needs to feel safe and protected around the slave. This is particularly important if she is walking in public in a potentially dangerous area. Many Mistresses like their slaves to act as body guards.
So being the slave of a Woman is definitely
not a job for wimps."
Goddess Lorena's Advice: Do you think
of yourself as being weak or a wimp if you submit to a Woman?
Does it matter how other people, besides your Owner, see you?
Those who do not understand why a man should or would want to
submit to a Woman will of course see you as being a wimp, pussy-whipped,
Momma's boy, or any other male dom society oriented stereotype.
Will you let that prevent you from serving and submitting to a
Woman? It takes strength and courage to fight your natural male
dom side to successfully win and take it over so that you can
willingly and fully submit yourself to a Woman. There is no weakness
involved. Only your dominant side which fights and resists
submitting would think it as being weak to submit to a Woman.
(you may even resist falling in love, seeing that emotion as a
sign of weakness also since it too will make you submit in order
to please or win the affections of the Woman you love.)
Many slaves who have conquered their naturally male dom side and
successfully submitted completely to a Woman, actually feel quite
proud about being able to accomplish this since it has been their
life-long goal, desire, and/or fantasy. Although, on occasion
a slave's pride can become overinflated if he concerns himself
too much with his male ego and pride. Thus, his pride will then
interfere with his submission instead of just feeling proud of
himself only when his Owner states that She is pleased with his
service.
In regards to wanting equal partnership and teamwork, if you want
equality then don't be a slave. Who ever heard of a slave who's
status was the same as his Owner's? Again, you are allowing your
male ego and pride to interfere with your desire to submit to
a Woman. you are indeed partners in a relationship in which She
is your Goddess and you are Her slave but if you see yourself
as being Her equal then you are not really submitting and instead
you are only just playing a role where you are pretending to be
a slave.
you say you also want respect? Do you not respect yourself for
submitting to a Woman? I do not think you are so concerned about
whether She will respect you or not. She most likely does respect
those who submit to Her. I Myself respect all My slaves. I do
not hate them, despise them, or think of them as being worthless
beings for Me to abuse and use (though I do own slaves who have
the inner strength, selfpride, selfworth, and selfrespect to willingly
volunteer to unedure abuse for My pleasure if I so wish it.) Again,
I think you are only worried about how others see you if you submit
to a Woman. If you treat Her well and respect Her then She in
return will treat you well and respect you. THAT is teamwork,
partnership, and equality.
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