Supreme Goddess Lorena gives advice to two other Goddesses while Her slave serves them dinner.
From the video Goddess Party
Click on each question to read the advice given by the members of Goddess Club
What exactly is Goddess Worship?
How should i serve and worship a Goddess?
Why do some Mistresses call themselves a Goddess? What's the difference between a Mistress and a Goddess?
Are all Women Supreme?
I can't get enough of this website. I've wanted to be a slave to a beautiful and powerful Woman all my life but I'm still hesitant because I don't want to screw up and disappoint anyone. I don't know, maybe I'm still not ready. How you do suggest I join Goddess Club or what should I do to get started so I can learn more first and have a better chance?
How common is it for a man to have a fetish for Women's Feet?
How come so many Femdoms say they're a Female Supremist but they own Female slaves?
How do Women and men who believe in Female Supremacy manage to live in a vanilla world
and does it require them to live a double life to avoid judgement, scrutiny, criticism, and persecution
from those persons who don't believe in Female Supremacy?
Some slaves do not seem to try very hard to obey and please Me and a few will even purposely misbehave. I get the impression it is because they think they are already bad, lowly, naughty, and unworthy so they feel they do not need to try to be good. This seems inconsiderate and selfish on their part and I feel tested and manipulated. What should I do?
Is it My imagination or do many slaves care more about getting their fetish than the actual Woman?
How do I know if I'm only being used to get a fetish?
What is the best way for a Woman to make sure Her slave lives up to his slave contract if She marries him
since the slave contract is only considered a piece of paper in today's society and
he is protected legally with a 50/50 legal right in the marriage contract?
I met My slave through a personal ad 2 months ago and he lives 280 miles away.
He's supposed to move to be with Me and the distance is tough cause we only see each other every 2-3 weeks.
Should I set a deadline or be stricter?
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*There's an increasing demand for slaves to be trained remotely by e-mail, online chat, and/or phone.
How can slaves be effectively trained when it's not possible to administer physical discipline?*
*How can a slave get the fetishes he likes without coming across as being selfish, demanding, manipulative,
and topping from the bottom?*
*i need to be forced otherwise i can't submit.
The Mistress has to make me do things and She should be very strict so i don't misbehave.
How do I find the right Mistress for me?*
*Why do Women hold back? Whenever I'm in a session I'm frequently asked 'What do you want?
How do you like it done?' Don't Women know the power and control they hold over us?
How can I find a real aggressive Woman who'll use Me and take whatever She wants from me?*
With the number of men who want to submit to Women,
why don't more Women try to get what they want out of life by dominating these men?
*How can i be a slave without being a complete wimp? i'm not weak and i want to be treated like a human being.
i want a mutually rewarding relationship that is built on mutual respect.
How can any relationship possibly work without teamwork by both partners?*
*How can a man who wants to be a 24/7 slave, possibly manage to serve a Woman 24/7?*
Should a slave give up his job/career (and would he even be able to in today's day and age)
so he can serve his Goddess 24/7?
*I'm scared to tell my wife about my kinky side and my unusual fetishes.
I don't want her to think I'm nuts but I also don't feel good about seeing mistresses behind her back.
How can I tell her that I'm submissive and I want to try something kinky with her
and how do I go about introducing her to the whole bdsm scene?*
Should a man who wants to be a slave and to serve Women, marry a Woman who is NOT Dominant
and should he tell his Wife about his submissive interests?
Isn't it kind of wierd for us men to want to submit to Women?
When searching for a Femdom, why do so many Dominant Women turn out to be a ProDom
and why do most of them cater to their clients' fetishes instead of truly Dominating them?
Pro Dommes never want to own me 24/7. How can I find a Dominant Woman who wants to own a slave 24/7?
*How can a slave better his own training and make it easier for his Goddess/Mistress to train him?*
How can a submissive live up to his contract when he lacks confidence and gives up easily
when his Owner gets upset at him and he feels he can't please Her?
How can a slave handle the fact that his Owner keeps other slaves besides him?
*What could the reason be as to why a man has had no success in finding a Dominant Female Owner to serve
if he has already been actively searching for several years?*
Advice For Women-For Women ONLY
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Dear Goddess Lorena: i hope this finds You doing well. You are never far from my minds eye, as a matter of fact, You control it! i have read the advice boards. The discussions were quite interesting and informative. A common theme seems to permeate through all of these items, that is, the essence of submission. As it turns out, too often there exists a dichotomy between how a male defines submission as opposed to a Goddess's belief/vision. The challenge is in reconciling these differences; certainly the submissive must shoulder the burden for changing his concept of submission. Being a submissive is a process, a metamorphosis if You will. Being submissive, truely submissive, is a state of mind; through unconditional surrender/submission does the submissive find enlightenment. Letting go and making this sacrifice takes time and trust as well as patience. For most men, this is difficult, almost an oxymoron. men generally learn too early on re instant gratification. men are trained too early on to control and to satisfy their own needs first. Therefore it is understandably difficult for a submissive to find that real submissive state; but it can be done with the proper training, a proper open mind and willingness to change. Understandably a Goddess and Mistress finds submissives frustrating - how often do They hear "i am submissive. . ", but the Goddess/Mistress has to compete with the "power struggle" that a submissive subconsciously exhibits. Throughout the advice board i had the feeling that submissives are searching for the way to become truely submissive, that is, what does it really take? we (submissives) need to learn to listen, open our minds and hearts, the answers are there. To me, in order to reach that submissive state of mind, we (submissives) need to learn to serve unconditionally - learn to place Your needs before our own. Then by unconditional sacrifice can we as submissives find all of our own desires and needs satisfied beyond our imagination. One of the questions in paticular intrigued me: "How should i serve and worship a Goddess?" Goddess Lorena's advice was impecible. She responds, "....to worship a Goddess, one must respect Her because that is what worship is about." If we (submissives) respect a Goddess, then it naturally flows that Her needs will always come first and foremost; that is the way it should be. And Lady Kyla's advice: "...live only to serve your Mistress/Goddess." By focusing on that which brings us the most pleasure, ie serving our Goddess, can we grow and further enlighten ourselves. Goddess Lorena, i could go on and on about trying to find the spiritual essence of submission, for i think that is what we (submissives) ultimately seek. i submit this to You humbly, hoping it finds favor in Your eyes. trainee slave ken n. Dear Goddess Lorena, First let me thank You for the high mark on my first training assignment. i am glad it pleases You. i also saw that You updated Goddess Club and i would like to thank You for giving me the privilege of being listed in Your stable of slaves and for Your kind word of praise. It means a lot to me and i will continue to try to do my best. i have read the Advice Index and Advice to men boards. There is a lot of information to digest and a lot of interesting comments for every question. What i found interesting is how many of the questions and problems brought up were caused because a slave forgot or didn't know the most important aspect of being a slave. They were thinking of their own needs before the needs of their Goddess. Many of the questions asked by male contained phrases like "i want", and "i need", instead of asking what She wants or needs. i see how easily we males stop thinking with our heads and let our penis take over. we too easily think of fulfilling our own fetishes instead of making our Goddess happy. That seems to be the point at which many relationships between a Goddess and Her slave begin to deteriorate. If we males can remember to keep our priorities in the right order there should be no problems. The phrase "topping from the bottom" came up a lot and in many cases the male wasn't even aware that that was what he was doing. The responses to the question "How can a slave get the fetishes he wants without being selfish?" (Advice #9) were pretty accurate. As i said earlier there is the phrase "he wants". If he is putting his needs before those of his Goddess then he is being selfish. worshipper tom s.'s response seems to be a good one. The needs of his Goddess should be all he concerns himself about. If his Goddess sees fit to treat or reward him a certain way then he must accept it regardless of his fetish. The issue of males having their priorities backward also comes up in the question about how he feels about his Goddess having other slaves (Advice #11). his only concern should be the well being and happiness of his Goddess. If more slaves make Her life easier he should be content and do his best to serve. As You point out in Your response, one slave would be hard pressed to carry out every duty to his Goddess's satisfaction and certain slaves have certain skills that others don't. The other topic that i really related to was the one questioning the effectiveness of email training (Advice #19). As a new trainee i can fully appreciate the benefits of it. As You point out in Your response, it is better that a slave have some training before he meets a Goddess in person. i can really relate to this. i tend to be shy and even get nervous just typing emails. If You saw how many times i have to correct mistakes in my typing just from being a little nervous You would see i am a little jumpy. Though i would jump at the chance to meet You in person, right now i fear the moment i met You i would be little more than a trembling pile of jelly who could only mumble incoherently and i would have little idea of how to properly greet You and act in Your presence. i would only make a fool of myself and be a disappointment to my Goddess. But thanks to Your email training i can get to know You and learn how to behave in Your presence and it helps to know that as You come to understand me better i can be a little more relaxed and be more focused on my training. For that i am extremely grateful to You and i deeply thank You for the time and effort You have put into my training. That You work so hard to make me a better slave, motivates me to do my best. If there is any service You require of me, i will obey. May this night find You in good health and peace. trainee slave adam r. |
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