Given by Supreme Goddess Lorena
"Come kneel before your Queen, and I will counsel and guide thee."
Updated: February 28, 2002
Updated by: Supreme Goddess Lorena
I am a .... year old male living in ....... and recently found
your wonderful club on the net. I DO agree upon all the statements
that You have taken and I am also fitting to convince my Wife
that She deserves a male slave. She agree in some perspective
but so far She only adopt the lifestyle in some ways. (I guess
that I am quite heavy into it and just cant get enough of Female
dominance. Its so obvious and natural for me that Females are
supreme to men in all aspects.) When I see the so beautiful Goddess
Lorena and read her rules and dominant thoughts you should know
that one almost goes crazy of desire. I definitly dont want to
be unfaithful to my wife (not even mindly) but thats my feeling.
Yet I hardly believe that these kind of wonderful Women really
exist until I have met one.I still hope that my beautiful Wife
will be the one! So far thank You for a great homesite!
It is very commendable that you
wish to remain devoted to your Wife yet I understand your frustration
in trying to get Her to take Her rightful place in life and enjoy
having control over you. It will be much easier once She sees
other Women doing it and if She sees it from a Woman's perspective
how enjoyable it can be for Her. Therefore, I suggest you watch
"Goddess Party" with Her. Many Women state after watching
it that they felt as though they were there at the party and they
desired to have been able to participate in what We had been doing.
your Wife may feel this way as well when She watches it.
Supreme Goddess Lorena of Goddess club
and Queen of Femaria
Dear Goddess Lorena and Goddess Alison,
i realize that You both must have
an excess of emails from submissive men who seek Your help, so
i hope this is not a burdening letter. i'm seeking sincere help
in the pursuit of my "calling" to serve, the right Woman,
in a totally Female dominated relationship. i say, "my calling,"
because it is a natural understanding of my submission, coupled
with my belief in Female Superiority has always been apart of
me. The relationship that i hope to be a part of is of a beautiful
bond between me and a truly dominant Woman. i would hope to experience
all that a vanilla relationship offers in love and trust, etc,
only with a far more sacred love and bond. Many so called "male
subs" seem to seek the sexual aspects only, or simple fantasy
fulfillment. my desires/needs are of total submission: the commitment,
the learning, earning, and love that a Female Dominated relationship
would offer Her and i. my reason for writing You both, Goddess
Lorena and Goddess Alison, is that my searching has lead me no
closer to the right Woman. There are so many people on-line, both
male & Female that aren't what they claim. There are also
groups within the local scene, where many people attend "play
parties," which doesn't seem to open the right door, nor
provide the path toward a
FemDomme relationship either. i believe in Female Superiority,
and do not see FemDomme as just "play" - not to mention
that i don't appreciate the "male dom" thing! Sure,
i wish to be claimed by this Woman with a strap-on, and experience
the physical side, like many submissive men, but it is the sacred
FemDom/malesub union that i truly need and long for. i am ....yrs
old, am very attractive, and am ready to make the commitment (with
dedication) of being/ becoming a Woman's slave. i am in a stage
in my life, where relocating for the right Woman is not an issue
either. In fact, serving the right Woman, in the right relationship
is the most important thing to me. Goddess Lorena and Goddess
Alison, would either (or both of You) be so kind as to offer advice
on how i may better advance as a submissive male? Thank You both
very much for Your time, Goddess Lorena and Goddess Alison.
Sincerely, Rob
Dear slave rob,
Even though you are correct in saying that there are many both
Doms and subs who only roleplay instead of truly believing in
it and living it as a lifestyle, the answer to your question still
lies within yourself. your letter clearly shows why you have not
found the "right" Woman. you seem to think the problem
lies with the kind of Women you find and not with yourself. To
find the "right" Woman, all you have to do is be the
right slave. Once you are the right slave, the right Woman will
recognize these sincere and good qualities in you and will find
you. To become the right slave you must first learn how to be
a good slave and how to serve Women so that one will want to own
you. Thus you will have a better chance of having the "right"
kind of relationship. If you would like to learn how to be the
right kind of slave, I recommend you join the slave Training Program in Goddess club.
If you are not willing to do that then the least you can do for
yourself is train yourself by watching and learning from My videos.
slave
Training Program
Videos
Supreme Goddess Lorena of Goddess club and
Queen of Femaria
hello. i came across your article on "a man's word".
i did not realize that there is so much in our terminology that
is offensive to woman and female supremacy which i believe in.
i suppose that i should apologize for my sex- if that is not rather
a stupid statement. i am an uncolored male that has never met
a woman who believes in female supremacy as i do. i suffer those
guilt feelings etc of the male with sexual images etc. anyway
enough prattle and thank you for the article and the education
- i will attempt to correct my ways in the future.
mark
Dear mark,
How wonderful it is that My article "A man's word" taught
you something that you would normally never have realized had
you not been informed. All too often men says things to Women
or around Women that Women find most offensive which the man later
ends up regretting having said since he can't take it back. But
even more sadly there are many men who are utterly oblivious to
how their choice of words affect Women.
Not only are Women sensitive but many also have a very good memory (Much to numerous men's grief). So anything that a man says to Her (or near Her and about Her) sticks within Her memory forever and it affects how She feels about men in general. When a man hears a Woman say "All men are pigs", She doesn't necessarily mean that men are messy housekeepers. She means that many men are inconsiderate of how they treat Women.
Adding to the problem is that men don't see half of what Women see when it comes to rude behaviour. men find it easier to brush off obnoxious or offensive behaviour around them. men will even allow their male buddies to insult them only to forget about it entirely just moments later. Husbands and boyfriends will find that they often have to pretend that they care when their Wife or Girlfriend wants to be consoled and comforted by him over something that someone had said or done to Her recently.
It helps if men try to see things a bit more as a Woman might see it. he'll most likely never see it exactly as how She sees it or nearly as often as She sees it but if he sees it from Her viewpoint and tries to be more sensitive to how She feels about it then both sexes would get along alot better.
It would also help if it started from day one. Fathers need to realize that their son is bound to follow in his footsteps and so will mimick everything that he sees him doing. That includes when the father honks or hoots and hollars at an attractive Woman. boys should have to learn manners just as girls have to, be taught to respect Women, and also to obey their Mother (rather than to have to be told by his Mother to wait until his "father gets home.").
Thank you, mark, for perhaps recognizing
your past mistakes and for wanting to change your way of doing
or way of seeing things. I hope to reach more men like yourself
who care to know and learn how to better themselves so that Women
are happier.
A man's
word
Supreme Goddess Lorena of Goddess club
and Queen of Femaria
Dear GoddessClub,
Thank you for the wonderful service you are providing for men as myself and across the world. It's the only site i discovered that actually focuses on the fundamentals of female domination and training. I'm a __ year old male executive. I occasionally have the time to surf the net but have found it difficult just to "surf" your site. There's so much to read and absorb that it took me days to study. I've been searching for info relating to femdom. This is different and probably not mainstream but it was part of growing up. Since __ years old, i would be ....... . I definitely didn't enjoy ....... but strangely enough today i desire a strict woman. I am not sure if i should pursue this through counselling or accept my feelings and pursue a dominant woman. It's hard not to accept it but is it normal to think this 24/7? I do respect and find women soft and sensous yet dominant. I often fantasize of being dominated by the women at work with their business outfits. I do find Goddess Lorena incredibly attractive, sensuous, intelligent, extremely dominant. I guess she's what every submissive desires in a dominant.
Thank You,
Regards, jp
Dear jp,
Thank you for your kind words about Goddess club. I have found
that many men who were raised by a single Mother or who were closest
to their Mother, grew up to respect Women more than other men.
So it is not strange or unusual for you to want to have a relationship
with a strict Woman or even just a Woman whom you can please.
I recommend you pursue your interest thru FemDom instead of seeking
counselling but if once involved you feel uncomfortable with it
then you may consider seeking counselling about it. you see, there
is no need to seek counselling over something you enjoy. So only
if you do not enjoy it should you seek such help. Otherwise, enjoy
it to the fullest and try sharing this interest with others who
would appreciate it as much as you do. I am happy to hear that
you have read My articles before pursuing this interest for hopefully
it will help guide you to experience real yet sane FemDom interests.
My videos will help you even more so than My articles. For your
interests I recommend these three videos:
How to Worship
a Goddess
Goddess Party
School Mistress
Supreme Goddess Lorena of Goddess club and Queen of Femaria
Hello, I am a young college student that is wondering a few things:
1. How can I as a male who believes in female supremacy {I have just recently been converted} begin practicing it everyday life?
2. Is it okay career wise to aspire to work for a dominant woman as a employee? If so how would one find a dominant female employer, and which jobs would be good {secretary, servant, etc}?
3. Is it unusual to be attracted to woman who are not only dominant, but also your intellectual superior? I am bright but not a genuis, but aspire to woman who are super ivy league type genuises. Could a semi bright submissive man attract a brilliant dominant woman?
I would appreciate any advice.
Humbly yours,
jay
Dear jay,
I am happy to hear that such a young Female Supremist devotee
exists. However, I am not altogether surprised as I am finding
that it is the new generation that is more attracted to
and understanding of Women being in power and in control. Mainly
this is due to the movie entertainment industry and to the media
being able to reach the younger group through TV, video, and internet.
These four sources of advertising show viewers and readers that
more and more Women are being independant by starting businesses
and families on their own and whether they are married or single
they are choosing important and high position careers such as
astronauts, scientist, stockbrokers, lawyers, judges, doctors,
politicans, police officers, and athletes. It is said that divorce
is on the increase and marriage is decreasing. This is because
more Women are taking the initiative to being happy and in control
of their lives by divorcing and/or not marrying instead of hoping
for a prince charming to offer them the good life. prince charles
proved that fairy tale fantasy to be false and o.j. simpson proved
that a Wife could live in fear of one's own husband and that he
could even possibly get away with murdering his own Wife.
Where does this leave both sexes? you have already answered it
for the older generation. It is not new to you to look up to Women.
It is as natural as can be for you and for the other youth men
like you. you are surrounded by strong minded young Women in school
who are not wanting to rely on a man to get them ahead in life.
She is ready to walk over top of you to get that better job position
if you get in Her way just as any man would. men had been threatened
by Women "taking" the jobs "away" from men.
Those men had foolishly considered jobs as being only for them.
they failed to consider that higher taxes would make it so that
both men and Women would have to work, even if they are married.
And with many Women of today now looking less kindly at married
life, they must work to support themselves if they live the life
of a single person.
Now, to answer your questions:
1.Is it okay to work for a Dominant Woman?
But of course. Apply for a job in which you know you will be working
for a Female Boss and in which you will have to work with almost
an all Female employee staff. The best jobs for you would be:
waiter, clerk in a shoe store, clerk in a Woman's clothing store,
bank teller, nurse, hairdresser, masseuse, manicurist, bellhop,
poolman, gardener, social worker, gynecologist, pediatrician,
psychiatrist, Women's rights activist, lawyer who specializes
in Women's rights, any position at a Lesbian newspaper or magazine
company, volunteer at a Woman's centre, clerk at a breast cancer
centre, slave assistant for a ProDom who is a Female Supremist,
etc. Keep in mind that you should not get in the way of a Woman
getting a higher job position but that if you do hold a higher
job position then you should always use it to get other Women
ahead who may be stuck in a lower job positon and who need help
in getting a promotion or raise.
2.Can you attract your better half?
men have been able to do this since the dawn of time. However,
if a Woman is not a Female Supremist then it is true that
She will most often prefer a male partner who is either equally
or more talented than Herself so that She feels he will understand
Her level of intellect, he maybe able to help Her to get ahead
in Her own career, and he can stand on his own two feet without
Her help (Being a Superior Being does not mean She wants to be
your Mom by having to do such overly supportive things as holding
your hand while the dentist cleans your teeth or giving you a
shoulder to cry on when your favorite soap star leaves the show).
If She is a Female Supremist, She would most often not mind if
you are of either a lower class or income level than Her so long
as She feels She will not have to support you (Rich Girl meets
couch potato), She won't have to think for you (Jessica Rabbit
meets roger rabbit), and She won't get frustrated trying to hold
a normal conversation with you (Genius scientist meets small town
high school drop out hot rod mechanic).
Finally, there is one very important thing that you can do to
help all of Womankind. Women used to stand together in an effort
to help one another. But now that Woman are being more independant
they are no longer feeling the need to bond with one another.
It's now every Woman for Herself and Woman are now fighting
against one another and hurting each other in order to get ahead.
men know that teamwork helps in order to win. It is why dominant
men feel threatened by Women standing together. they know it makes
Women stronger and that they get what they want if they join forces.
Without Sisterhood, Woman are turning into being nothing more
than men. Not only are they dressing more than men but they are
also making the mistake of acting like men. To win the battle
it is not always best to think and act like the enemy. Woman are
better species because they are not like men. you can help
by teaching every young Woman you come across that Women should
stand together because it will make them stronger in getting more
rights for Women. Women Unite-Not Fight!
3.How to practise Female Supremacy in your everyday life?
Always grab and hold a door open for every Woman possible, always
offer assistance to Women, stand up to support any Woman who is
fighting for a good cause to benefit Women, vote for Women leaders
who promise to make things better in society for Women, work at
a job that helps all of Womankind, ask your Female elder family
members on what they feel would make life better for Women (trust
Me, they would know!), date and marry a Female Supremist, etc.
To learn many more ways on how to serve Women in your everday
life, watch this instructional training video:
How to Worship
a Goddess
Supreme Goddess Lorena of Goddess club and Queen of Femaria
Dear Maam,
I came across your site last night and was mezmerized by the views you have. I had "butterflies" reading your articles. I am a student who is discovering his submissive side and cannot control the urge to be dominated by an older woman. In my younger years a family friend had a daughter a couple of years older than myself whom i would see several times a year at get togethers. She would always wrestle with me and pin me under her dress. I would always lose because of the tremendous submissive feelings i would get during these moments. Unfortunately, i am constantly aware of my submissivness and sometimes fantasize about dominant women while studying (A "no-no"!). Is it normal to have these feelings at my age? Did these events in my early years affect my development or do boys experience these and forget about them later? Do i need help? Do you come across many males as myself? Should i look for a f/m relationship because of my feelings or wait it out? Where would i start to look for one? I want to order your videos.
Sincerely,
Peter
Dear peter,
Believe it or not, your question is a common one. Most, if not
all, men who are submissive are so because of a earlier experience,
whether they remember the experience or not. Living it or acting
it out now in your adulthood is not a problem and is not unhealthy
as long as you are directing the interest in a good way and you
are not hurting anyone. you have merely taking an enjoyable experience
and making a reoccurring one from it so that you can enjoy it
over and over again. Some men don't ever remember how they got
to be submissive and so feel confused about why they are the way
they are. Because of not remembering, they may also feel ashamed
of feeling submissive. you are one of the lucky ones. you remember
which fun experience gave you the interest of being submissive
to Women. you may even enjoy watching wrestling on TV where the
Women wrestle with men (ie: Chyna). There are many websites run
by Female wrestlers who are also FemDom. you may find one or two
listed on Goddess club's links pages. Start to live it over again
slowly so that you don't feel disappointed. It is best to keep
an open mind and to experience whatever is out there involving
your interest rather than to have expectations. No experience
may ever come close to what you had gone through when you were
young. Take each new experience to be just that-NEW.
Question: Did you have an older Sister while growing up? If so
then perhaps you looked to this other older Girl to wrestle you
and to win because you secretly wished to do this with your Sister
but for certain reasons you did not feel comfortable doing it
with Her. So instead you chose an "outsider" to take
Her place in wrestling you to the ground. If you did not have
an older Sister then just disregard this observation and analysis.
Supreme Goddess Lorena of Goddess club and Queen of Femaria
I am a novice as a slave but Your beauty and website appealed
to me and I'd like to find out more. I have visited a few dungeons
and am wondering how exactly an ownership takes place between
a mistress or goddess and a slave. I would like to be owned but
I do not know how to go about this and am not sure any of the
four visits I have had with mistresses could result in this sort
of regular longterm relationship. I await your expertise and thank
you for considering this email.
david
Dear david,
The most important thing that any slave must do in order to maintain a long lasting slave contract is to first be trained how to serve an Owner. Once you are fully trained, a potential Owner can then consider you as being worth owning since you are already trained in servitude.
I always train My slaves by email and video first and then once they pass training I allow them to serve Me by email and I will also allow them to meet Me in person if they are able to travel. If they serve Me well in person then I may consider owning them 24/7 as My fulltime personal slave. their slave contract is then discussed, drawn up, and signed. I may then collar them and I may even mark them. I may also have them re-locate.
But not all slaves prove to be worthy of that honourable position and so some slaves just pass training to become My email slave. It all depends on how willing the slave is to submit, how sincere they are, and how much of an effort they put into their training.
I highly recommend My slave Training Program
Supreme Goddess Lorena of Goddess club
and Queen of Femaria
Why do Dominant Women always just ask for money all the time?
Why can't they Dominate slaves without asking for cold hard cash
to be involved?
The most common complaint I hear among FemDoms (both Pro and
non-Pro) is that the male population in general is selfish and
that male slaves are just as selfish. These FemDoms complain
that the slaves 1.just want their fetish to be catered to instead
of caring about giving the Woman what She wants and 2.he wants
it for nothing (for free). he complains about having to pay for
it as much as She complains that he won't pay for it. But is it
not obvious to everyone by now that men want sex and Women want
financial security? Is this not the reason why prostitution has
always been so popular? Of course if the man was a true
slave who truly cared about serving a Woman then he would just
do whatever the Mistress asked of him and he would also
give Her whatever She wanted, whether it be money or anything
else. (For the Mistress this would then mean that She would no
longer have to seek out so many slaves to get what She wanted
and needed from each and every one of them but instead could get
it all from one good fulltime slave.) And if the true slave
is married then he would not seek out another Woman to serve but
would just serve his Wife and remain loyal to Her. But if he is
not a true slave then he does not want to serve but really just
wants to get his fantasy fulfilled and when his Wife will not
do it for him or if She does not fit into his fantasy then he
seeks another Woman to "serve". And he wants to find
this other Woman for nothing (for free). he resents his fantasy
having to involve money. Even if he asks for training, he resents
having to pay for his "lessons". Why? Because to him
he is not wanting to pay for lessons. he is not asking
to learn anything. To him training means a "session",
not a "lesson". FemDoms do not cater to their client's
fetishes by giving them a session because they want to.
They do it because it is the only way to get funds out of the
slave. men in general do not want to learn from a Woman. Even
when they were young boys they resented being scolded by their
Mother. they saw their father being the boss of the household
and so wanted to follow in his footsteps. Try guessing which of
Goddess club's videos is the least selling video. Here is a hint.
It has something to do with learning. You guessed right. It is
the school video "School Mistress". It a great video
and I love watching it but to slaves it represents learning so
many will not order it (the fools! they do not know what they
are missing.)
I hate finding out that many FemDoms Dom Women also and have Female
slaves. Especially when those FemDoms state that they are Female
Supremists. I find it to be so contradictory to their beliefs
but I thought maybe they offer such a service as a way to cater
to their clients requests more. To give them both ends of the
spectrum if that is what the client was willing to pay for. But
now I wonder if that is the reason why the FemDoms have Female
slaves. Could it be that these FemDoms have found that Female
slaves are not as selfish and demanding about getting their fetish
catered to so these FemDoms prefer to keep a Female fulltime slave
instead of a male one? I personally would never resort to doing
that. I hate Women being Dominated and so will never Dominate
one. But maybe, just maybe, that is the reason why those particular
FemDoms have Female slaves and/or Dom Women.
Things have not changed much since I used to ProDom. I stopped
doing it because I could not handle the men asking "What
do I get?", "What does a session entail?", "Make
Me do.....", and "Force Me to......"., etc etc.
But like I said, things (and men) have not changed much. men who
call themselves "slaves" still complain that they cannot
find the "right" Mistress. Perhaps they should first
try being the "right" kind of slave.
Supreme Goddess Lorena of Goddess club and Queen of Femaria
i don't want You to think i'm a pervert. i have never
ordered any panties from anyone in my entire life. But i ordered
Your panties. i just don't know why exactly. For the past three
weeks my life is changing dramatically. As You said it's not a
fantasy anymore, it's becoming a reality. You're a psychologist.
Can you give me an answer, as to what's happening to me. i really
want to know.
trainee slave brian h. of WA.
Dear trainee slave brian h. of WA,
What you are feeling is all quite normal. Every slave who has
boughten panties had done it a first time too. Most often it is
a case of doing it for or because of "the right Woman".
Many of My slaves do things for Me that they normally would not
even think of doing and they do it either because they care for
Me, want to see Me happy, to prove their devotion, or they just
want to see the pleased look on My face when they do it.
I sense that you are also feeling a case of the jitters. you
need to remind yourself that this is all still quite new to you
and that it is a learning process. Learning how to serve a Goddess
takes time. It is alright to feel scared, nervous, uncertain,
confused, awkward, dumbfounded, etc. That is a part of the learning.
Just do not ever give up simply because you feel those emotions
because they will all pass in time. Remember that this is what
you have been wanting and waiting for for a very long time. Do
not let a great opportunity pass you by. Nothing terrible should
come out of it. you are just here to learn and to feel a great
fulfillment from having pleased a Goddess.
My Worn Panties
Supreme Goddess Lorena of Goddess club
and Queen of Femaria
I am writing to you to inquire about videos focused on female
superiority and matriarchy. I am a submissive man and I am humbly
asking for help. I am hoping to find training videos that are
less focused on "fetish activities" and directed more
towards a matriarchal marriage. For the most part, I do obey and
submit to her control. However, there are times when I tend to
get my priorities mixed up and I find it difficult to accept her
control over me. This particularly happens on issues of money,
or if I disagree with a decision she has made on some of our major
issues. Obviously, this is causing problems in the relationship
and I realize it is my fault. I just need some help to fully accept
her authority in the relationship ALL of the time.....not just
when I feel submissive. Our relationship doesn't entail a great
deal of bdsm and most of what we find in videos seems to be fetish
eye candy so to speak, thus not really helpful in our situation.
Can you make any recommendations or suggestions that would help
us? I certainly don't want to lose her, and I truly wish to make
her happy. I hope to hear back from you, and I greatly appreciate
your time. Thank you.
slave S.
Dear slave S.,
you will be very happy to know that Goddess club does sell videos which are not about catering to a male's fetishes but are more geared towards training a slave how to serve his Owner. It was the main objective I had in mind when I filmed each video because I believe a slave's only purpose in life is to serve his Owner and that his fulfillment comes through obeying and fulfilling the wishes of his Owner.
These 4 videos will teach you how to serve your Owner:
The Training of a worshipper slave
This video will show you how to pamper Her and treat Her like a real Goddess:
If your Owner likes Her feet being cared for, this video will instruct and show you how to do that properly:
If your Owner likes to make you Her sissy maid or to spank you then you may like to buy this video:
Also, you should both enjoy and learn alot from reading My book:
I hope you learn quite alot from these items so that you can eventually overcome any difficulties or barriers you once had while trying to serve your Owner. Let Me know if you have any questions or need any advice once you watch the videos or read My book and I will try to help you further. Serve your Owner well, slave.
Supreme Goddess, Goddess Lorena, Boss
of Goddess club and Queen of Femaria
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