by Supreme Goddess Lorena
(Video: Ladies Tea Party)
A man's word
Unless a Woman is venting a release of emotion, She usually thinks carefully about what She wants to say before She says it. men on the other hand generally speak quite literally and bluntly and so usually have to apologize regularily to Women for hurtful things they have said. Sometimes they will apologize for it but still do not understand why She feels so hurt by what he said. There are many things a man can say to hurt a Woman so I am unable to list them all. Instead I will just point out some of the sayings and phrases that men have created and use which Women may find offensive and, quite possibly, exploitive to Women.
"Man's best friend"
This saying was created in reference to how a dog makes a
great best friend for a man. I suppose the fact that a dog will
obey orders and will remain loyal to his owner even if it is beaten
has nothing to do with it? For more on this, read: Cat
Woman
"That man is a pussy!"
men use this saying when attempting to insult another man. This
implies that they feel Women are of a lower class and that it
would be an insult to be thought of as one. If it refers to strength,
on the contrary Women are in no way weak. It is a known fact that
they can take more pain than men.
"It takes balls to do that!"
Implying that only a man can do it. Perhaps Women should make
up a similar saying such as, "That takes breasts!"
"My Lady" versus "My Lord"
In the Medievel era men said "My Lady" to Women.
It could easily be taken as that he is saying She belongs to him.
Yet, the Women had to refer to men as "My Lord". Why?
Were all men back then supposed to be referred to as Her master
or maybe even Her God? "My Lady" makes Her sound owned
and "My Lord" makes him sound more superior.
"Little Lady"
A man's attempt to lower his Woman. he makes Her sound little
and thus beneath him. This is where the phrase "Belittle"
came from.
"Baby"
When a man calls his Woman this he makes Her sound small again
and so in need of being looked after. It would also make it seem
as though She belongs to him (his baby) and is uneducated since
She is referred to being an infant.
"That's my girl"
Again the same as "baby". Instead of calling Her
a Woman She has being made younger and child-like. Again beneath
him.
"Doll"
A plaything. A 'boy-toy'. It was a popular saying in the sixties
and seventies but don't think it was stopped being used because
of the feminist movement. It just went out of style as many other
sayings did. (Such as the next one).
"Chick"
Another saying from the sixties and seventies. I suppose Women
are often thought of as hens. They do talk alot between themselves
and do usually talk loud and fast when they are excited but they
in no way believe in being one of many wives to one cocky boisterous
rooster! men using this term back then would have been lowering
a so-called hen to being an infant hen.(chick).
To "man the controls"
Insinuating that it is for a man to have the control over
something. Well not for long. More and more Women are taking over
the controls, at least over their own life. The way it should
be. I always hold the TV remote but it shouldn't stop there. It
is important for today's Woman to have control over as many aspects
of Her life as possible.
"V4M-9B1 : Victor, 4, Mike. 9, Bill, 1"
When repeating postal codes etc, why use men's names and not
Women's? Because men made the saying. Why did they make this saying
and need to repeat codes? Possibly because they are said to be
deaf on occasion. It is said that men only hear what they want
to hear. For example: A Woman says to her husband, "I need
some help in the kitchen." he plays a deaf ear. Then She
says, "I feel so aroused right now. Do you want to have sex?"
Perhaps he would hear that better.
"May I help you Sir?" versus "Maam, what
is it you want us to do?! We already told you we cannot help you
any further!"
Try an experiment. The next time you are at a business and
possibly standing in line somewhere, maybe at a bank or a supermarket,
pay attention as to how many male customers are called "Sir"
in a friendly, helpful manner and compare it to how many Women
are called "Maam" in an unfriendly manner. The results
will astound you. Most often when a Woman is called "Maam"
it is done in a sarcastic or condenscending manner. Just as many
Women resent having to give another Women a title and feel threatened
by this as men do. So when you are conducting your experiment,
include Women clerks/employees in it also.
"To honour and obey"
I was once at a wedding that was held in a Jehovah Witness church.
The pastor/priest/preacher had the groom say this during the exchange
of vows on occasion but I was just appauled at how many more times
the pastor had the bride say "obey" and many other similar
submissive type statements. I have never before walked out during
a wedding until that moment. I had to leave. I just could not
stay and bear witness to such an unbalanced/one sided exchange
of vows.
"To give the bride away"
Implying that a Woman is owned by Her father until he gives
Her to another man.
"I'm taken" versus "I'm spoken for"
When a Woman has committed Herself to a man and another man
approaches Her, She is expected/asked to respond, "Sorry,
I am taken." but when a man has committed himself to a Woman
he usually says to another, "I am spoken for." instead.
Why the difference? Because on the average a man would never say
he is "taken" (or owned) by any Woman. Yet he expects
his Woman to say that She is. It sounds as though She is an object
or a possession that belongs to him and so is not aloud to talk
to another man. In ancient times new wives were carried over the
threshold of their new home by their new husbands to signify that
She was a new possession to be added to his household. Also in
some old customs in some countries if a Woman's husband died She
was to be killed to join him in death. In other lands wives of
deceased husbands weren't to be killed but could not remarry.
A king in the medievel era started the custom of giving the wife
a ring to wear to show others than She was "taken".
Before this man started this custom it was instead custom to give
a new bride a necklace to wear. Did it represent a collar more
than a wedding gift? (It's not that Women don't love being given
jewellery but it does matter on what reason it is being given.)
"The 'Master' Bedroom"
This one is pretty obvious. You can be sure that I would never
call My bedroom this!
"Son of a Bitch"
Women rarely use this term compared to how often men use it.
Men usually use it to refer to men who are rude jerks. men often
blame things they do on Women and this again is just another way
to do just that. I firmly believe that if some guy is an ass it
is NOT because he was raised by a so-called bitch. Notice how
they never say, "Boy, what a son of an asshole!"
"man-haters"
Women generally do not use this term. Usually only men will
use it when referring to a Woman who has a complaint about a man
or men in general (If She has had Her fill of men's behaviour
and feels She can't take it anymore). Rather than think that perhaps
She is right about Her complaint about a particluar man, a man
will instead just label her a "man-hater". It is easier
for him to find blame within Her than with the man. But what about
all the men who harm and hurt Women? It is so common to hear about
seriel killers who kill mainly only Women, and husbands who beat
their Wives, and rapists, and other such violent men who take
their hostility out on Women. Are they ever called "Women-haters"?
you don't hear that term used very often at all. Instead We/we
just hear that the man had lost his temper because his Wife had
pushed him beyond his limit, or that he is anti-social or a social-path
because his Mother raised him wrong or because he could never
relate to Women.. Just because Women don't like the way they are
treated does not always necessarily mean that they "HATE"
men. Instead they most often just hate what men do to Them.
To "master" an art or a skill
To be able to conquer something is thought of as to be a master
of it. Why not use the word "Mistress" instead? Because
it is men who generally like to control and conquer things. (Even
some slaves try selfishly and manipulatively to control their
Mistress. This is called "Topping from the bottom".)
For example look at ancient Rome. Their main goal and interest
was to conquer the entire world. Hitler honoured ancient Rome
by continuing this power hungry act during his own reign. We of
course all know of another country that is presently trying to
do this same thing again.
"I won't do that, that's women's work!"
and "A woman shouldn't be doing that, that's a
man's job."
Both of these statements come out of men's mouths. With Women
fighting back so hard for equality now some men are probably a
little more fearful of saying such things but there are men out
there who are fighting right back to regain control over Women
so that they can feel powerful again. Those men are possibly still
saying such statements. With the first comment about something
being Women's work, he doesn't want to do something so is implying
that it is only for Women to do. Then on the other comment he
is not allowing Women to do something because he feels only men
should be allowed to do it. Men naturally like to make rules for
Women to follow them.
"It takes alot of man hours", "the best man
for the job"
These two phrases imply that hard work requires a man to do it.
"High maintenance"
Used to refer to a Woman who he finds hard to please. A man using
this term only confirms that he relates Women to being some form
of machinery and that it must run or work in a certain way.
mankind
To refer to the entire world's population. So where do Women,
the kinder sex, fit into all this?
human
Again, where are Women?
Female, Woman
Each name has a man in it. Woman means "man with womb".
This is the reason why Lesbians choose to name themselves as Womyn
instead.
The following male chauvenistic terms exist in the world of the
internet:
1."master copy"-a term for either an original tape or
something similar.
2."Webmaster"-the term given to the owner of a website
no matter whether male or female.
3."Primary master" and "Primary slave"-terms
used to relate to who is to use a computer or computer program.
4."Pagemaster"-the name of a computer software. Several
other computer programs also use the term "master".
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