by Supreme Goddess Lorena
(Video: A Humiliating Experience)
A slave should always be mannerly to a Woman. So when you make
your appointment you should be polite and you should also be punctual.
you should also ask Her if She would like you to bring anything.
It is even good to bring a surprise, such as flowers. It is not
a good idea to bring alcohol even if She asks for it. you want
Her to meet the "real" you and vise-versa. (That also
means NOT to relax yourself by having a couple of drinks before
arriving!)
When you arrive, greet Her properly. Bow to Her, kiss Her feet,
refer to Her by Her title, etc. Whatever She asks of you. Give
Her the fee right away. Do not decide to haggle over the price
now that you've got your foot in the door and do not ask Her things
like "What do I get?". you are there to learn. She is
there to teach you. If She wants to help you with expanding or
experiencing your fetishes then She will ask you about them. Do
not come across like a demanding, selfish, fake submissive role-player.
Her job is hard enough as it is.
During the "session" do all that She asks of you unless
it makes you feel overly uncomfortable, nervous, scared, or ill.
Do not snap at Her about it or argue. Just ask Her nicely (or
beg) for mercy. If She still does not stop then ask politely if
you can leave or end the visit. This should make Her come around.
Do not threaten Her. That will only make things worse for the
both of you. If the visit is cut short do NOT ask for your fee
back. The fee is for Her time and effort (which She has already
given). There is no money back guarantee for services already
rendered.
When leaving, try to maintain your submissive behaviour (whether
you feel the session went well or not). It is a real turn off
if you shut off your submissive side once the "session"
is over as though to prove to Her that it was all an act and that
you have a built-in switch that you turn off once you have had
your "fix". you may like to do this to build your confidence
back up to prepare yourself for the vanilla male-macho world outdoors
but the least you can do is to wait until you've left Her sight
first. It is very impressive if you tip Her and if you call Her
once you are back home (or back at the office) to thank Her for
the experience.
Copyright © 2000, 2002
Supreme Goddess Lorena of Goddessclub.com, All Rights Reserved.
Comments:
What i learned from reading this article:
The most important point of this meeting is that the Dominatrix is there to teach me, and i am there to learn, nothing more and nothing less.
When i arrive i should of course be punctual in time. i have to greet Her by bowing, kissing Her feet, using Her titles. i can offer Her some flowers or an other little present, something about which i questioned Her earlier. i have to give Her in a subtle way an envelope with the money without any question or remark about it. This is Her fee for Her valuable time and effort She spends on me. It’s not done to come back to this envelope, given is given and that’s it, whatever is going to happen afterwards. If She asks me something i have to express myself in the most polite way.
Alcohol and drugs should stay out of the contact. (my own experience has taught me that a relation with a drug addicted Goddess is not possible. It’s not the real Goddess in that case, but a person who is also a slave in a certain kind of that word! And it costs the admiration i can give to Her.)
So i am to learn from Her. i have to do everything She asks me and i have to do it in a clear submissive way. This means that She is the one who may decide to ask me for specific fetishes and She decides if i am going to experience them or not. She is the expert, so i should leave the process of training to Her. i should not snap, argue or discuss with Her about what She is doing. If She needs an input of me, She will ask me. The only possibilities for me to take an initiative in the contact with Her is begging Her for mercy or asking Her politely if She is willing to stop, but that means that the visit will end.
Also when i leave Her after the visit is ended, i should do it in an for a slave appropriate way, that means submissive! i may tip Her and i may phone Her later to thank Her for the experience.
So the point is that a first visit to a Dominatrix is the first step in a training process. She is the one who assesses my shortages of being a good slave to Her and who decides what kind of program is necessary to teach me. i have to be polite, obedient and grateful in word, attitude and deed.
trainee slave leo
How to behave in your First Session With a Dominatrix:- slave
philip submits his understanding of Goddess Lorena’s wisdom.
When booking an appointment, a slave must always be polite, respectful and humble. Listening to what a Goddess or Mistress says, then, following Her instructions precisely is very important. If not told, a slave should ask what he should bring along.
Arrival should always be punctual, and the slave should be clean, neat and have followed his Goddess or Mistress’s instructions precisely. It is always nice to surprise your Goddess or Mistress with flowers or something She likes, this will show Her that She is really appreciated. Never turn up intoxicated by alcohol, illegal drugs or try to pretend to be anything other than what a slave is. This will not impress a Goddess or Mistress.
Greeting a Goddess or Mistress should be exactly as She commands, whether it be, bowing, kissing Her feet or kneeling etc.. Her tribute should be offered immediately, unless otherwise instructed, and a slave should always remember that She is always worth far more than She charges. If the slave is nervous, chances are, She will understand and allow for this.
During the session, a slave must appreciate that he is there to please, serve and obey. The Goddess or Mistress, being utterly superior to the slave, is best placed to decide the content of the session. For the slave to offer input, on what the content should be, is to insult Her, and show that the slave is in need of urgent correction. A Goddess or Mistress will say if She requires any input from a slave, and will expect him to remain silent unless other wise instructed. A slave is initially unhappy because he does not know how to please his Goddess or Mistress. He can only learn by the grace of a Goddess or Mistress, which means submitting totally to Her, so that She is in a position to shape, change and develop Her slave.
Acceptance of his Goddess or Mistress’s training programme, and all Her values, will bring a slave true happiness. On the way, She will shape, hurt and change the slave, often pushing him beyond what he thought he was capable off. Sometimes, a Goddess or Mistress will give a slave a ‘safe word’ for use in sessions. This can be used if the slave cannot cope with the situation he is in. Other Goddess or Mistresses are experienced enough to feel they do not need to use a ‘safe word’.
At the end off a session, always thank your Goddess or Mistress. Always try to continue in the same submissive attitude and do not put on a vanilla act. Remember a slaves’ Goddess or Mistress is always superior to him and should always be respected as such. If instructed to write a review on the session, this should be done. If not, be sure to call Her and thank Her again sincerely.
(on his knees…),
Your obedient trainee slave philip j.
The first session with a Dominatrix is like an interview,
and this means the slave should present himself in the proper
position and manner he holds, that of a submissive slave. It is
important to meet the Dominatrix as who you really are, and that
you see who She really is, Your Superior. For this reason, do
not cloud your image by using alcohol, or anything, to attempt
to take the nervous edge off. As well, do not bring such things
with when You/you meet.
When arriving, a slave must be respectful, and acknowledge
his position and Hers by bowing, kneeling, kissing Her feet or
shoes, and addressing Her in a manner She deserves, by Her rightful
title. The slave is there to learn, therefore the fee should be
paid quickly without attempted negotiations, so that the Dominatrix
may begin your lesson. To properly learn, the slave needs to do
everything he is commanded to do to the best of his ability without
question or hesitation. If there is a problem, the slave should
address it with the Dominatrix in a manner that is respectful,
polite, and non-argumentive. At no time is the slave to leave
his submissive role while in Her presence and cause hurt or embarrassment
to the Dominatrix. As a gesture of gratitude, the slave should
offer a tip, and phone later to offer his thanks for Her precious
time and training.
trainee slave danny k.
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