Femdom Mistress Interview 07

Scarlet Magazine
-September 2008 (for Issue #__)

(Note: The following is the full complete original unedited version of the interview questions and answers.)


Questions for Supreme Goddess La Reigna:

How did you get started? Have you ever had a 'regular' job?

ANSWER: I started GoddessClub.com in 1999 but before being online I had previously been a Dominatrix in the 1990's as Goddess Isis. Rather than being an escort I prefered the concept of dominating men and getting paid to do so. However, I did not like catering to the selfish fetish demands of the client so I created a much different concept of being worshipped as a Goddess. When I found there was a large following and a need for this idea of mine I felt like I was home. It was as though I had created my own fantasy world and I was in complete bliss!

How was your first experience as a dominatrix?

ANSWER: Empowering. I had once found a button which related to how I felt about my work. It read, "All This And Money Too!" Being a Dominatrix gave me the opportunity to demand respect from men and to get paid for it. What more can a woman ask for.

When was the moment you became Goddess La Reigna?

ANSWER: In 1999 when I began my website GoddessClub.com. I immediately had a following. The men even created a religion in My name called LaReignaism. I have men who have remained loyal devotees since day one of being online. I often receive emails and mail from men who confess they have been visiting my website for years and that it has changed their lives for the better and their behaviour towards women. This amount of gratitude from my followers brings great satisfaction. I would love knowing that I have made some amount of change in the world for the better. My job is not a selfish one. On the contrary, it is quite giving and fulfilling.

What do you tell friends and family that you do?

ANSWER: Model, clothing design, writer, marketing, advertising, consultant. Although, for those who know me quite well, they already know what I do. Some found out on their own and some I had told.

Describe exactly what a money mistress does.

ANSWER: A money mistress caters to the fetish of a money slave; a man who likes being commanded to pay the mistress more generously than a regular slave would, and often without receiving anything in return. Some money slaves even like the idea of being taken advantage of and being forced and manipulated by a selfish greedy woman, but not all can handle it once it happens. To most it is just a fantasy. Therefore, a real money slave must be careful of blackmail, threats, theft, and fraud. As the popular saying goes, "Be careful what you ask for."

Describe the average money slave - age, job, marital status, class, race?

ANSWER: 30's, low to average paying job (often blue collar or office work), single or married, caucasion.

Who is your ideal money slave?

ANSWER: A man who likes to work very hard in my honour, has a good paying job or works two jobs, is generous, and prefers to live humbly so he can give me more financial tributes. If he has a low paying job, has alot of bills or debts, spends alot on himself, and promises to send money but never does, then he is not a real money slave.

What do you think a slave gets out of the transaction?

ANSWER: As I stated above, most money slaves are only into the fantasy of being swindled by a greedy woman, but real money slaves actually love the feeling of working hard so they can spoil a high maintenance woman with lavish gifts. When I tell a money slave I spent his hard earned money on a lobster dinner and expensive designer clothes and shoes, he might climax from the excitement and contentment it gives him. In other words, we are both happy and we both got what we wanted out of it.

Do you ever see your money slaves face to face?

ANSWER: Only if I want to meet them, but yes I have chosen to meet with a few so they can take me shopping in person. Although most money slaves prefer not to meet and to be coldly ignored. I always tell a slave what I spend his money on, but they never ask to know. They are just happy to give the money or gift.

Do slaves get anything in return?

ANSWER: See above.

Have you ever felt guilty about taking a slave's money?

ANSWER: No, because they willingly offer it and give it. They do not regret it, at least not with me.

Do you believe what they tell you? Do slaves make up a life story for themselves? Why?

ANSWER: In regards to those men who email me and beg to send me money (sometimes repeatedly) but never do, obviously they are not real money slaves and they are only into the fantasy of pretending. Some might even be trying to upset the mistress by doing what I call, "dangling the carrot". Those are the men who resent women having money so they like to taunt her. Those are not real slaves at all.

How do you recruit new slaves? Do they find you?

ANSWER: My slaves work very hard at advertising me on other websites, forums, boards, and blogs on the internet to find other slaves for me. This is their duty as my slave; to find more slaves for me. It is not difficult for me to find slaves to do this slave labour since I have a large following of devotees.

Do you have regulars?

ANSWER: Yes, almost all of my slaves are regulars. See above.

What's the hardest part of what you do?

ANSWERS: The hardest is seeing women continue to allow men to abuse them, seeing women insecure and jealous of other women rather than networking together to try to stop the male violence, destruction, and abuse which continues in patriarchal society. I have been trying so hard to revert things back to Goddess Worship, Matriarchy, and respect for Womankind, and although I will NEVER give up, and I do see some impact I have had, I admit that there are days when it is more challenging than others. On those days My devotees need to remind me with motivation messages such as, "YOU have the power!".

What's the best part?

ANSWER: Receiving emails from women and men who have said I changed their lives for the better, that they admire me, and that the world is a better place because I am in it. Some emails warm my heart so much and bring a tear to my eye. My job is extremely fulfilling.

How do you 'shake off' a working day? Do you live as a mistress 24/7? Do you have a name/place/time that is just for you?

ANSWER: Indeed. Although my job is my lifestyle and it is so satisfying, I still need a day off just like anyone else. On those days I go out with my girlfriends. We go shopping, to movies, restaurants, concerts, and events. I also spend some time alone. I like to sit by the ocean or go on nature walks. Nature and spirituality is very important to me.

Who are your friends and what do they do?

ANSWER: Some friends are My assistants, staff, and slaves. Others are friends who have no clue what I do. A few friends who found out on their own what I do for work actually love the idea and are proud of me. But I still prefer not to disclose it to those who do not yet know. It is always good to have friends who know and love you for you.

Do you ever have times you don't feel like a goddess? How do you combat this?

ANSWER: Yes. In times of weakness I need to remind myself of who I am. To do this my friends remind me. One girlfriend likes to say to me playfully, "Who's a Goddess?", at which I must answer, "I am". I also get a quick uplift as soon as I read my emails. I rarely get a bad email, and when I do I just ignore it. There are plenty of people who love and respect me and appreciate my gift to the world.

Where do you get your confidence from and do you have any tips?

ANSWER: Following my tips above as well as reading self-help books, do only what makes you happy and do not live your life according to others, keep a happy list of what makes you happy and do those things on off days, and keep only good company of those who truly respect you. I was abused as a child and it actually made me what I am today so I try to look at that experience in a positive way. It taught me to stand up and demand respect. Never allow someone to abuse you. I also use fun electronic gadgets which I can program messages into and play them to motivate me. Prayer also helps. Want help? ASK.

Do you have slaves working in your home? Do slaves ever exchange services or goods, rather than payment?

ANSWER: I own hundreds of slaves, but only a select few are actually worthy of serving me in person so most are online slaves, postal slaves, and distance slaves. Yes, those who are unable to cover the costs of their training or cannot afford to send me tributes or gifts instead earn their position as my slave by working hard in my honour by doing slave labour according to my strict commands. Of course those work slaves must work extra hard to prove worthy of being my slave.

Can a goddess have a sense of humour about what she does? Can a slave? If yes, how?

ANSWER: Absolutely. I always hear from slaves that they like my sense of humour, as well as my ability to dominate without being rude, mean, or angry. Dominating men should be fun. If it makes you angry then you are either doing it wrong, looking at it wrong, or doing it for the wrong reasons. You might sometimes hate what men do, but never hate men. Dominate with love. Give guidance. Have fun doing what you do. If you don't have fun doing it, then do something else. Remember, life is short.

What is 'hypnotic' financial domination? Do you practise it?

ANSWER: To hypnotize the slave into doing or giving what you want. I do not do so intentionally although some slaves do admit to feeling "mesmerized", "drawn", and "spellbound" by me. It is natural for a man to feel seduced by a woman when he is attracted to her and when he falls in love. It is not her doing, it just happens naturally.

What would you say to someone who calls what you do 'prostitution'?

ANSWER: Prostitution is the sale of sex in exchange for money. It is common for people to misunderstand domination and categorize it as prostitution because many men will only submit to a woman as a "slave" if sex is involved. However, most professional dominatrixes will not include any sexual act in a session, and they will state so in their ads. The man should be in the domination session to submit to a woman and to worship, serve, and obey her, but he should never expect sex of any kind.

How could a reader of the magazine get into financial domination?

ANSWER: First research it to learn more about it to confirm that it is what you truly want to do. (It is a very specialized interest and fetish. There are hundreds of other fetishes in domination.) Next read online or in domination magazines how money mistresses do financial domination. Keep in mind that not all are successful at it, regardless of what they say. The best way to tell is to see how many years they have been doing domination. I would be happy to tutor any woman who is interested in this. I have tutored many women at GoddessClub.com over the past ten years.

What could an average girl learn from a money mistress?

ANSWER: How to get men to throw money at you and make you feel like a princess. But remember, be aware of the men who are fakes and learn how to tell the difference to save yourself the trouble.

What could an average girl learn from a dominatrix?

ANSWER How to gain respect from men and be treated like a Queen or Goddess.

My blessings,

Supreme Goddess La Reigna of GoddessClub.com

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