Goddess Calico -Please tell me a little about your background. How did you get involved in SM/BDSM?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -My involvement in Femdom began when a Girlfriend of Mine, who knew My natural born instinct of always wanting to be independant and in control, suggested that I might like being a Dominatrix. Evidently She was right because I have been in the lifestyle ever since that moment.

Goddess Calico- What was your very first impression when you first seen a Dominatrix?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -I was 14 years old and at a summer babysitting job. I had found the husband's hidden stash of Penthouse Magazines and Penthouse Letters and Forums. In one of the magazines had been an article with two photographs of a beautiful woman with long brunette hair. In one picture She was cutely wearing Her hair in two curly ponytails and She was wearing a white frilly babydoll nightie. In the second picture She was dressed in a black latex catsuit with Her hair down and She was snarling and holding a whip. The headline read, "Which one are you?". There was no hesitation. I was immediately drawn to the Mistress picture. I thought to Myself, "That is who I want to be when I grow up!". (The stories in the Penthouse Letters about male slavery confirmed it even more so for Me. I wanted to own a male slave!)

Goddess Calico -Do you enjoy foot worship?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -I love having My feet worshipped, and also having slaves worship the scent of My worn foot items, such as My worn socks, hose, slippers, sneakers, and shoes. My worn items have become very popular.

Goddess Calico -Do you enjoy playing with cross dressers and transsexuals?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -Yes I adore crossdressers, tgps, and sissy slaves. I even own a few and am currently seeking a new sissy slave.

Goddess Calico -What do you do in your spare time?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -I very much like to go out with My Girlfriends and/or slaves to brunch, lunch, dinner, movies, concerts, events, boat cruises, and shopping. Sometimes I do this alone, such as when a slave sends Me a tribute so I can enjoy life's pleasures. I then go shopping with his tribute or to dinner and a movie. I sometimes will send him a picture of this, or I have these pictures posted on GoddessClub.com in the picture galleries.

Goddess Calico -What is the ultimate "dom space" for you personally?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -The best "Domme space" for Me is a place where I am comfortable, but of course the slave need not be, especially if he is bound and being punished by Me. It is extremely important that I be catered to, served, and worshipped. That is why I am called a "Goddess".

Goddess Calico -What is your opinion on Pro Doms in general, who use bdsm as an outlet for thier anger?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -I do not believe that bdsm/domination should be used as a way to vent one's anger. It should never be done with hate, resentment, or anger. That is why I train and guide slaves in a loving manner. I praise them when they do well, and if they need correcting, scolding, or punishment then I do so with a firm but gentle hand, voice, or words. Perhaps this is why I have such a large following of devoted slaves.

Goddess Calico -So tell me, do you have a personal slave or perhaps more and what do You look for and expect from a personal slave?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -I own a few select slaves who have proven worthy of serving Me in person, and I also own a few others as long distance slaves who are happy to serve and worship Me from afar, and I train hundreds of other slaves (many of whom hope to be eventually owned by Me).

Goddess Calico -What is your style of domination?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -Loving but strict, I prefer to be worshipped and served, I demand complete obedience, and My slaves must always be devoted and loyal to Me. My slaves must also work very hard in My honour.

Goddess Calico -Do you find that some submissive confuse what "slavery" is as opposed to "submission" and/or "Masochism?"

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -Yes, many male submissives call themself a "slave" but are only interested in a temporary roleplay session in which they are called "slave" and they expect Me to follow their scripted fantasy to cater to their fetish or list of interests. I do not own those selfish submissives. I only own real slaves. I do however train many slaves who started out as a "submissive" and they were happy to finally become a real "slave". If I was not capable of moulding these men into real slaves I would not have remained in Female Domination for so many years. Having this ability has given Me hope and kept Me going with My mission. This might also be the reason why so many Women admire Me and are inspired by Me.

Goddess Calico - Do you think that a truely "bad" OR "dangerous" dom needs to be known about as much as a "bad" OR "dangerous" client?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -Yes, but as We/we all know, there is always two sides to every story. Some male switches and roleplaying session submissives might use that tactic as a way to turn the tables on a Mistress. Also, other Mistresses who feel insecure, jealous, and threatened by another Mistress's popularity might attempt to tarnish another Mistress's image. So it is best to use one's own instinct when choosing a Mistress or a slave.

Goddess Calico - What is one thing you dislike about the scene?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -1. How the media portrays Femdom as prostitution. 2. How the search engines prefer to list mostly male dom websites. 3. How Femdom and Mistresses are treated badly by male doms and BDSM's. 4. How alot of BDSM is about abuse and torture on Women. 5. How Mistresses do not network with each other and instead feel jealous, insecure, threatened, and competitive. 6. How fake male "slaves" treat a Mistress like a prostitute by expecting the Mistress to cater to his fetishes but then complains when She charges him a fee (If you treat a Mistress like a prostitute, She will treat you like a customer).

Goddess Calico- And what is the most likable things about the scene?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -Being worshipped like a Goddess, and treated like a Queen. What other lifestyle can offer Women this!

Goddess Calico -What is your favorite equipment? What do you like to do with it?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -When needing to punish slaves I like to use the whip or crop. When I crack the whip I feel like CatWoman. It feels empowering. Whereas the crop enables Me to be exact and precise in regards to location of it's impact (similar to how any vanilla person might feel when using a fly swatter).

Goddess Calico -Is there a particular experience in your life through which your dominant side was brought out, or how did you discover this side of yourself?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -I feel I may have been born dominant because I was born on September 8 (Virgo), and in the year of the Horse (leader, stubborn, freedom). Also, My combined zodiac of birthdate, year, and hour etc is of three fires which is said to be a natural born leader or ruler. So I have always been drawn to submissive males, at least since I was six or seven. However, I was abused as a child by My father so I know it had a big impact on Me. Although the things he did to Me was terribly wrong, ironically I have him to thank for what it has made Me today; a lifestyle Goddess and Mistress. (Perhaps our soul does choose our parents?)

Goddess Calico -Do you have your own studio? Can someone come by during the lunch hour to visit you?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -I prefer not to live My life that way. A slave who is serious about being trained or meeting Me should email Me first for information on the appropriate steps to take in order to reach My Goddess Temple.

Goddess Calico- What are the three major "NO NO's" a client best never ask you?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -1."What do i get?". 2."Can i have sex or worship Your body?". 3."You do not know me, i have never applied to You before, never met You, and have never been trained by You, and i do not have a job, but can i come live with You in Your home right away?".

Goddess Calico- Have you ever encountered a submissive that you tortured immensely without ever putting a finger on them? How does it feel when you can possess such power?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -Yes, and it feels wonderful (for both Me and the slave).

Goddess Calico -Have you had a session in public before? If so, where did it take place and with what impressions did those around you respond? If not, would such a thing excite you?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -Yes, I have dominated many slaves in public before (as well as unsuspecting vanilla men). The number of times is too great to list them all here, but slaves can read all about them in My articles and diary on GoddessClub.com.

Goddess Calico -What do you think of dommes who insist their way is the only right way?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -That it is very lonely at the top. Some Mistresses might misunderstand their position assuming that they must be mean, rude, nasty, cold, angry, and stubborn in order to dominate. It is not true. Even Mistresses and slaves must learn to get along. Shocking, I know.

Goddess Calico -What to you makes a good and bad domme?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -A bad Domme assumes She should act rude and mean, and caters to the wants of the "slave", which continues to wrongfully portray Femdom. A good Domme trains the slave to not be selfish but does so in a loving guiding manner. The fact is that men abuse and use Women only if We let them. Women who scold men have noticed that most men secretly want to be corrected and put in their place by Women. (Ask Female cops, school teachers, and your Mother!)

Goddess Calico -What do you envision doing ten years from now?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -This.

Goddess Calico -Can women couples contact you for live sessions?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -Yes, I tutor many Women and couples.

Goddess Calico -Is there something more that you would like to share with those reading this interview?

Supreme Goddess La Reigna -I hope this has been enlightening. For more, visit GoddessClub.com.

My blessings,

Supreme Goddess La Reigna of GoddessClub.com

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