by Supreme Goddess Lorena
Having sex with a Woman who is Dominant can be much more different
than you imagine. She can be much more demanding than other Women,
more willing to experiment, and maybe even quite aggressive.
1. Demanding:
If you find it hard to please a "vanilla" Woman in bed
(not to mention outside of the bedroom) then you will find it
even more difficult trying to please a Dominant Woman. It takes
alot to satisfy Her. One way She might want to be satisfied is
through oral sex. She may make an effort to postpone Her orgasms
if it gives Her a feeling of satisfaction to have that power over
you. Postponing may also make Her feel more served and catered
to. To know that he is suffering might be a sexual turn on for
Her.
It will help considerably if you like to please Her. If you do
then you should let Her know that you feel this way. Sex is always
more enjoyable if there is a "give and take" situation
going on but if you "get" from seeing Her pleased then
it will not just be Her that is "getting". Both of you
can feel fulfilled when you are servicing Her through oral sex
or through another form of stimulation.
you have to accept that it will take some time to get used to
what She likes and to know what She likes and does not like. (Later
read My other sex article titled "Oral Sex"). Try to
be patient and do not complain if you get confused. Practice saying
more simpler statements like, "Yes" or "Yes Mistress"
instead of arguing, defending yourself, supplying excuses, and
pointing blame.
One way to satisfy a demanding Woman is through the use of more
than one man. This may be hard for a man to accept but men have
been doing it since the dawn of time and Women have had to accept
that on the odd occasion. So face it, if you being only one man
is not enough to please Her then swallow your pride, step aside,
and allow Her to be pleased. Two heads are better than one! (So
to speak). you never know, you might enjoy watching. Every man
has a voyeur inside of him.
2. Experimental:
Perhaps She would want to play "Amazon Queen" one night
but that is not the only thing I am referring to. Here are a few
things that may turn Her on that you might have to be willing
to try in order to please Her:
-She may want to try wearing a strap-on and it may not necessarily
be just to see how it looks on Her.
-Tying you up and torturing you in any way She can think of such
as tickling, grabbing, squeezing, slapping, etc.
-Smothering you with a pillow as She "rides" on top
of you. you will have to have some form of trust in Her that She
will let you breathe in time before you pass out. Or you can just
pray that She reaches orgasm in time. "Smother boy"
time!
-Burning your penis. (Ouch!)
-Candle wax. (Contrary to what you might believe, candles are
not just used for adding romance. Yes love does hurt.)
-One night may make history. This might be the night She chooses
to pierce, tattoo, or brand you!
-Pony ride. She may dress up like a CowGirl and want to ride Her
pony around the bedroom as She kicks it's sides with Her spurs
and while yelling, "Yee-hah!"
-Riding your face (if you know what I mean).
-Beating you with a either a crop, whip, or paddle as you perform
oral on Her (Or as you have intercourse with Her. you would have
to be on top).
-Trampling. A new meaning to the phrase "She walks all over
you". Now when you tell your friends that, you can really
mean it.
Those were just a few examples. She may come up with things to
try that you have not even heard of or imagined!
3. Aggressive:
Wrestling may well be an interest of Hers but She can also be
aggressive in other ways. you will need to practice some form
of control. For example, if She slaps you it is NOT appropriate
for you to hit Her back! Below are a few examples of ways She
might be aggressive to you.
-Wrestling. (Yes, She must always win.)
-Playful punches and smacks to remind you of your place when you
mouth off to Her. (She may do this in a vanilla setting when it
would not be convenient or appropriate for Her to bring out the
whip.)
-Teasing and tormenting nipple squeezes to remind you of your
place.
-Consential rape. (Most likely your favorite.)
-Trampling.
Those were only a few ways in which She might demonstrate aggression
towards you. She may even swear and yell at you or boss you around
more than other Women would. The main thing is to remember your
place. Giving in may open up more doors for you than if you struggle
and put up a fight. Resisting against Her Dominant nature may
create a much bigger problem than if you submit willingly.
So there you have it. A Dominant, demanding, aggressive Woman
who is willing to experiment in bed with you. This is what you
have been fantasizing about most of your life. So do not screw
it up by being selfish and asking for things for yourself or by
telling Her what to do or by manipulating Her. If you are patient
and just do as She tells you to then you will learn alot from
Her and you will experience many wonderful times with Her. In
doing that you will eventually find that She does give you most
of what you want. All She had to do was to be Herself. Allow Her
that.
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